Words and Notion

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Men and Women

Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed. ― Albert Einstein

Hmm.. Was this statement made by Einstein…from physics to psychology? well, I am not quite sure.

Anyway you have something to say on this quote, no ; )


Signs awaiting your attention

Open your mind and heart, there are signs awaiting your attention. It’s neither luck nor a miracle. You are being guided through these signs. Don’t let them simply pass you by.

So don’t miss these signs and signals. And after all who knows whether these are signals from some aliens beyond our solar system.



Why do people insist on Ekapathi (single husband for a woman) while Ekapathni (single wife for a man) is not emphasised..? Yes, there could be exceptions; still polygyny is prevalent.

Polygyny was permitted in many places at one time. When the population of women was exceeding than that of men (due to war and all), polygyny was permitted, in order to save the female generation from prostitution and poverty.

But now the conditions have changed, we are not living in that dark era.  Still the rules haven’t altered. Polygayny is permitted in many countries even now.

They will preach for ‘Ekpathi vratha’ (single husband for a woman) while engaging themselves with many women. They are least bothered on the sentiments of their wives. Even those people who support polygyny will raise their voice against polyandry.

So ultimately they know the ethical aspect behind that. Or at least they are aware of the danger behind that. Or they can’t bear even the thought of sharing their woman.

It is not like, ‘if polygynyy is there, polyandry should also be there’. It is not a matter of seeking liberation for women. Both cases should be controlled, for ensuring a healthy social life.

Okay, I mentioned about the ethical aspect. But I know that, there is no point in speaking such ethics in front of the people supporting this polygamous animalistic behaviour. So all I can state is, you can do that as long as you are not hurting your partner. Or else, why do you want a partner/soul-mate in such a case…all are your partners, no.. ;). And you are just helping the nation to have many more citizens in a short span of time (9 women can give birth to 9 kids in 9 months’ time while one women can have only one kid in the same span ) ..  oh ! It’s such an unselfish profit.. …


Translated version of  my yesterdays post ബഹുഭാര്യാത്വം



സ്ത്രീകള്‍ ഏകപതീവ്രതമെടുക്കുമ്പോള്‍ പുരുഷന്‍ എന്തിനു ബഹുഭാര്യാത്വം സ്വീകരിക്കുന്നു..?

ഇതൊരു പൊതുതത്വം ഒന്നുമല്ല..എന്നാലും ഇന്നും പലയിടങ്ങളിലും നിലനിന്നുപോരുന്ന ഒരു നഗ്ന സത്യം. ഒത്തിരി അപവാദങ്ങളുമുള്ള സത്യം.

മതങ്ങളും ആചാരങ്ങളും ഒക്കെ തത്ക്കാലം മറക്കാം. പകരം, അബലയെന്നു വ്യാഖ്യാനിക്കപ്പെട്ട സ്ത്രീയെക്കുറിച്ചൊന്നു ചിന്തിക്കാം.

അവളെ രക്ഷിക്കാന്‍ വേണ്ടീയായിരുന്നോ ഇതു..?

അതോ, മറ്റൊരു ലാഭക്കച്ചവടമോ..?
ഒരു സ്ത്രീ 9 മാസം കൊണ്ടു ഒരു കുഞ്ഞിനെ തരുമ്പോള്‍ 10 സ്ത്രീകള്‍ 9 മാസങ്ങള്‍ കൊണ്ട് 10 കുഞ്ഞുങ്ങളെ ജനിപ്പിക്കുമല്ലോ..? അതൊരു വലിയ ലാഭം തന്നെയല്ലോ. സ്വന്തം രാജ്യത്തിനു കൂടുതല്‍ പൌരന്മാരെ നല്‍കാനുള്ള നിസ്വാര്‍ഥപരമായ ലാഭം.. 😉



I had a crush..

I had a crush.. shhhhhhhh….I still cherish the moments I met you for the first time. Such a magical pull.. I couldn’t take my eyes off.

I wanted to be a part of your musical life. But donno, why you were always slipping out of my reach. Still you filled my heart and mind completely.

I was looking for you. I was waiting for your acoustic effect.

A decade later you came to me in a white costume. I didnt know what’s wrapped inside. Very carefully I touched you. Finally the golden, black threads and beads appeared in front of me. There was no limit for my joy. I became that old schoolgirl for a moment.

My lovey wind chimes, my crush..  You came after a long awaited period. 😉