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Can a man win the war against lust?

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Will you gentleman be aroused on seeing a pretty lady in half dress?

When your masculine hormones responds positively,

  • What if she is cooperative to your wishes?
  • Then,  will you feed your lust-hunger or Move away, holding your morality or loyalty or promises to someone else ?

Why is it so tough to resist the temptation or win the war against lust (in an unintended relationship) ?

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Author: Akhila

I am flying across the space between words and whipping up whimsical waves of notion to discern the quantum code of my soul.

94 thoughts on “Can a man win the war against lust?

  1. Here you’re putting a men into a different situation and not many have understood it properly .the question was just simple and straight forward…if a woman looks at you with lust, how will you react?
    after all, I believe in ‘one man, one woman’ policy.

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  2. Men are by nature polygamous. They often don’t even try to resist the lust. Of course, there are exceptions…

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  3. Was wondering if I had missed this post, Akhi. Lots of opinions alley?

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  4. I don’t know if I can put my thoughts into words clearly. There is an underlying belief that Men can talk freely of their lust while women can’t. Men have an advantage over almost everything due to so many reasons. Women have been the subdued and the weaker sex in the past and the culture of men raping women or expressing their lust in other manners have become so prevalent that some men think it is alright. That men have lesser control over their senses than women (A friend who thought so, told me this). I think it is the whole attitude that has brought this about. If women were stronger and we had an advantage & control over the men, the same story would have been reversed.

    So I think, the ability to control or not to control isn’t gender specific but depends upon a particular human being and his mind. Our society has dissected and bifurcated everything on the basis of gender that people are unable to see otherwise.

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    • Ranjini… this is totally a different perspective… something to ponder…”if the women were physically and mentally strong enough the story would have been reversed”.. is that possible…

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  5. Loyalty first – but there is nothing wrong with a little lust in a relationship 🙂

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  6. Now that’s circumstantial for both of them! Btw one should never sleep with a stranger.. Just a doctor’s advice 😂

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  7. In my humble opinion there are so many different variables! One of the biggest is the poor mans ego. If he feels wanted and cared for and has his needs met at home, the risk of temptation is lessened. In practical terms, it is easy to turn down a few chicken nuggets if you just ate a steak at home!

    Another is the mans sense of honor. I would not want my kids to see me as a less of a man. I have a daughter and would destroy a man who took her as his wife but hurt her. I need to set an example for my son.

    Admittedly sometimes it is hard, but it is not worth the pain and anger it creates.

    Unfortunately there are also some women out there who think of it as a game and look at men as if they are playing hard to get so their ego joins the battle as well!

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  8. I am not sure, if they can. But then again if the woman responds positively then I do not think it is even possible. Having said that I have seen faithful men who would try and do their level best to avoid the adultery.
    So I guess it all depends on the individual.

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  9. This is one question I always ask to such mens ( though not openly)..what you receive after such act? or you satisfied or proud of your activity? Dont know when this will stop

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  10. Can a man win a war against lust?
    Yes.

    Will you gentleman be aroused on seeing a pretty lady in half dress?
    Yes.

    When your masculine hormones responds positively, what if she is cooperative to your wishes?
    Yes

    Then, will you feed your hunger or move away holding your morality or loyalty or whatever.
    Yes.
    Why move away from morality, loyalty or whatever? Sex isn’t a sin! It isn’t a morally degrading experience. It does speak about loyalty, but don’t loyal people (to each other) have sex ? Whatever, yes please be specific!

    Why is it so tough to resist the temptation or win the war against lust?
    What? There is never a war against lust. Fir some, it is tough to resist sometimes, but that doesn’t mean that people go on a lust rampage with the first person they find.

    But then again, it goes both ways!

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  11. It’s in my opinion not hard at all. Tempting but not hard. Ones mind reacts to what one has taught it through behavior and environmental perception. In each case one should not that each persons reaction is different. The question can be asked if the degrading of women wasn’t so prevalent in today’s society would we be so tempted to act on these forced lusting situations.

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  12. Why should we win

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  13. Well, I don’t know much about the topic, but what I have seen and read in the books, the only thing that actually stop a man against this war is fear of post regret, the burden he may be subjected to after the situation (if he is already holding promises to other woman), at times not too, maintaining loyalty is a difficult task I see.

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  14. मैडम जी इस दुनिया में चोरी करते पकडे जाना अपराध है चोरी करना नहीं।”lust” आदमी और महिलाओं दोनों में होती है।कुछ पुरुषो के guilt होने के कारण सभी आदमियों पे इलज़ाम लगाना गलत होगा।
    And yes the mixture of lust and love is a pure form of orgasm…bt if there is only lust thn its a kind of “mental disability”…thing which are happening in the world is mental disabity not lust….lust flows in botb ways either men or women…

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  15. I suppose this goes for both men and women. It’s easy to blame men for being adulterous, but if women throw themselves at them maybe they are just as wrong. As is it the other way around.

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  16. Lust is a behavioral part of every human being be it a man or a woman. It’s not difficult to control it.. if only you possess the will to do it

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    • The ‘will’ happens only when you have some morales in life…if you are an easy go type, the why question comes into play.. and no one can answer that question other than with ones own life experiences

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  17. I don’t think it’s a matter about controlling lust. Rapes happen because some men believe they have the authority to fulfill their desires even without the mutual consent of the ladies.

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  18. Hmm nice lines Akhila but men are men and women are women everything plays with what the situation is. One has to surely be careful.

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  19. I am confused here. What is your point? I am sorry but I didn’t understand it. We have also written on this topic. Read lust by us. Hope You’ll like it.

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  20. Lust and love:-
    We have story on this topic…Visit to our blog and you will get all the answes

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  21. Lust is real for both the genders but I guess it all lies with our will power.

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    • Totally..lust is the very human nature..no disagreements…but above to that will power, it becomes quite natural to have no lust at all with the unintended person… it’s above to feeling of morality or loyalty.. it won’t become a commitment.. it happens naturally when there is love in your life… maybe it’s my personal view…

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  22. Well he needs to win war against list in case ,women’s consent isn’t there.

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    • Well ami, now I would ask, which women’s consent.. the pretty lady who made him lose his control or the lady who was waiting for him in his home ( if he has one )

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  23. I think it takes two hands to clap.. yeah men have more of those hormones but i am positive that the same exist in women too.

    The only difference is men don’t control which leads to wrong doings..and women can control.

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    • Okay, again why would you say, women can control it. The woman in your neighbourhood controlled, the woman in neighbourhood didn’t. It’s a personal choice, it’s nothing ki all “woman” can and no “man” can.

      No offence meant mate!!! Hope you don’t mind……..

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    • Thanks for being so frank bikram..really appreciate that.. it’s a total human feeling and no harm in that as long as it’s not hurting someone else..someone need not be that charming woman who ignite the lust as she maybe even cooperative too, but it could be the one who trust the person

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  24. Moreover any gender be it male or female looking at the opposite sex with intentions of doing anything immoral leads to adultery even though it may not involve the sense of touch.

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  25. This sounded two sided to me Akhila.. one part we talk about men holding their morals high and the other about women being cooperative to men’s wishes.. the cooperation comes with her consent. If she objects then definitely men need to back off..

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  26. Also, why generalise……..
    As you said, if woman is cooperative of your wishes, doesn’t that indicate she too has needs, she wants to fulfill.
    Men are different, some are full of lust some arent. Some chose to be loyal, sone don’t. Generalising men, as the lusty being is completely unwarranted and stupid.

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  27. Why call it lust, it’s a natural stimulation to beauty…………
    It’s no war!!!

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    • Okay then…you call it as natural stimulation to beauty…it’s not bad as long as you are not intruding into someone’s comfort zone .. what if you are breaking some promises to someone else..do you account that under your natural stimulation..

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  28. Well no one can promise but atleast try level best to win…
    We can only give 100% percent but result can’t be predicated..😇

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  29. To be honest, most of us guys aren’t soldiers in the war against lust.

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