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You can buy an orgasm, but never love.

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I don’t find true love or romance in you guy’s relationship.

Oops… How dare I to say that. Who am I to judge someone else relationship. After all who am I to define love?

What is love.. love is just love.. nothing more to say.. It’s good enough as it’s not an abstract thing to be defined.

Your version of love may not be like my version. It doesn’t imply that you are only right or I am. People may be expressive or non-expressive. Let them be as they are.

If there is love, the bond will be multidimensional comprising all the emotions under a single umbrella. It will have care, trust, lust, passion, longing, addiction, possessiveness, compassion, attraction, attachment, affection and comfort (and many more).  There is always enough space for you to release your temper, grief, and any pain.

And yeah, hormones such as oxytocin also have a main role to play in love. Maybe that’s why you cannot force some to love you or prevent someone from loving you.

And above all to the superficial feelings, there develops a quite natural bond as you go on. And that natural addiction will be evidenced in your actions.

You can buy an orgasm, but never love. No love for sale  is so far available in the markets.

Well, this is how I outline love up to certain extent, and yes I don’t believe in first sight love.

Author: Akhila

Akhila is the founder and sole contributor of wordsandnotion.com and qualitynotion.com. A self motivated life long learner who loves to decode signs from the universe. Her weirdness is totally aligned with her real life stories and thought experiments. She is the author of “Know them, One answer to many questions” (a General Knowledge book) and “I Had a Crush - The 17 Kinks” (A free ebook of 17 short stories)

75 thoughts on “You can buy an orgasm, but never love.”

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  1. Sayanti aka Shine
    April 1, 2017 at 7:18 am

    You are right, Akhila. It’s very difficult to find such love where everything in rhythm and where the lovers find space within themselves. I think people are more looking for lust than love. Hence the true love is often missing in most of relationships.

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  2. mylittlepursuitsofhappyness
    March 30, 2017 at 3:40 pm

    love at first sight.. cupid strikes etc are just illusions.. love is eternal

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  3. Mann
    March 29, 2017 at 5:54 pm

    but love at first site do exist my dear!!!!

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  4. Prajakta
    March 29, 2017 at 12:35 pm

    I am still nowhere close to figuring the fine lines between relationships – this rings a bell here and there 🙂

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  5. Akhila
    March 29, 2017 at 11:47 am

    It’s all about love..only love

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  7. Moushmi Radhanpara
    March 28, 2017 at 11:26 pm

    I don’t know about love at first sigh, I don’t now about love at all, all I can say say is it has to be true and pure.
    I don’t want you to call me day and night, it cannot be all happy all the time,
    All I expect from this ‘Love’ is togetherness. Fight with me, love me, hate me, scold me if I am wrong, but it has to be with me, Love is about togetherness for me.
    And yes, it can never be bought, markets can sell anything brought from anywhere but now this dear scarce love!

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  8. Letters That Matter
    March 28, 2017 at 7:58 pm

    Love Now A Days is just like this : http://wp.me/p8gd2K-6W

    Very truely written!!!

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  9. neelchauhan2710
    March 28, 2017 at 7:28 pm

    People buy Orgasm but cant true love.
    There is nothing to believe in First sight love.

    Very Well written.

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  10. Snehlata sethia
    March 28, 2017 at 7:00 pm

    First sight love is a big puzzle for me.Before 16 years I got arranged marriage with an unknown fellow.I trust my parents choice so I was sure everything will be fine.Today we love each other most.Acceptance is the most important thing in love.orgasm is physical diet but love is soulful diet.In my opinion true orgasm cant be purchased It happens only when someone’s love and dedication relate it.isnt it?

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  12. Shweta Suresh
    March 28, 2017 at 6:03 pm

    Good one, dear! I don’t believe in love at first sight too (unless the object in question is food! 😉😂)

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  13. Confused Thoughts
    March 28, 2017 at 5:03 pm

    So true !
    now days people finds orgasm in the cover of true love

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  16. kalyansparks
    March 28, 2017 at 1:49 pm

    That’s bold,but true.love is like a natural calamity.we can’t make it happen forcefully,but when it comes we can’t even stop that.That sweet damage when we hit by that is eternal in soul.

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  17. thewritewomanblog
    March 28, 2017 at 1:16 pm

    Bold and power packed, Akhi! The truth well expressed 👍

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  19. boundlessblessingsblog
    March 28, 2017 at 12:27 pm

    Even I don’t believe in love at first sight it has to come naturally and very nicely u have written Akhila. Love has to happen it is not a game

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  20. theonlysup
    March 28, 2017 at 10:52 am

    unity of souls is more important before bodies unite.. thats what i feel . good one akhila.. somehow these days you are making me agree on your points .. haha:)

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  21. Sangbad
    March 28, 2017 at 10:21 am

    wow never expected such bold notion from you…read this wrote on the same line as your notion…

    https://thoughtsofwordsblog.wordpress.com/2017/03/26/satisfaction/

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  22. mihrank
    March 28, 2017 at 9:36 am

    “The orgasm has replaced the Cross as the focus of longing and the image of fulfillment.”

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  23. crystalamayy
    March 28, 2017 at 9:10 am

    I don’t believe in love at first sight even though people hav told me that its like u felk for a person instantly just like u know her from a long time,but it later end up to be lust or infactuation and the intensity of love is different fr different people,some say love just for like and for some others love is like forever feeling and yes for sex u can choose anyone but love is not easy to find.nice one!

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