I don’t find true love or romance in you guy’s relationship.
Oops… How dare I to say that. Who am I to judge someone else relationship. After all who am I to define love?
What is love.. love is just love.. nothing more to say.. It’s good enough as it’s not an abstract thing to be defined.
Your version of love may not be like my version. It doesn’t imply that you are only right or I am. People may be expressive or non-expressive. Let them be as they are.
If there is love, the bond will be multidimensional comprising all the emotions under a single umbrella. It will have care, trust, lust, passion, longing, addiction, possessiveness, compassion, attraction, attachment, affection and comfort (and many more). There is always enough space for you to release your temper, grief, and any pain.
And yeah, hormones such as oxytocin also have a main role to play in love. Maybe that’s why you cannot force some to love you or prevent someone from loving you.
And above all to the superficial feelings, there develops a quite natural bond as you go on. And that natural addiction will be evidenced in your actions.
You can buy an orgasm, but never love. No love for sale is so far available in the markets.
Well, this is how I outline love up to certain extent, and yes I don’t believe in first sight love.
April 1, 2017 at 7:18 am
You are right, Akhila. It’s very difficult to find such love where everything in rhythm and where the lovers find space within themselves. I think people are more looking for lust than love. Hence the true love is often missing in most of relationships.
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April 2, 2017 at 12:46 pm
Thanks sayanti. Many a times lust is recognized as true love. And at a later point of time when people realize it, the egoistical notion comes into picture spoiling the relationship
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March 30, 2017 at 3:40 pm
love at first sight.. cupid strikes etc are just illusions.. love is eternal
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March 31, 2017 at 7:54 am
Yeah..I too believe so..how could we just start loving someone at the first sight..what hormones will get you know that he or she is going to your soulmate🤔
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March 29, 2017 at 5:54 pm
but love at first site do exist my dear!!!!
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March 30, 2017 at 3:06 pm
Haha..maybe you are the example 😉
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March 30, 2017 at 4:42 pm
For real, yes!!!
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March 31, 2017 at 8:02 am
Yup…there you are….so when did those hormones tell you that it’s him, your ❤️…
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March 31, 2017 at 3:38 pm
As soon as my eyes met his 😋😋😋
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April 2, 2017 at 12:19 pm
😍😍😍
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March 29, 2017 at 12:35 pm
I am still nowhere close to figuring the fine lines between relationships – this rings a bell here and there 🙂
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March 29, 2017 at 4:45 pm
Ha ha.. listen to that bell.. you will have some answer
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March 29, 2017 at 11:47 am
It’s all about love..only love
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March 28, 2017 at 11:26 pm
I don’t know about love at first sigh, I don’t now about love at all, all I can say say is it has to be true and pure.
I don’t want you to call me day and night, it cannot be all happy all the time,
All I expect from this ‘Love’ is togetherness. Fight with me, love me, hate me, scold me if I am wrong, but it has to be with me, Love is about togetherness for me.
And yes, it can never be bought, markets can sell anything brought from anywhere but now this dear scarce love!
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March 29, 2017 at 11:55 am
Love your views on love.. wish you to have a chance soon
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March 30, 2017 at 1:31 pm
Thank you so much dear 🙂
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March 28, 2017 at 7:58 pm
Love Now A Days is just like this : http://wp.me/p8gd2K-6W
Very truely written!!!
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March 28, 2017 at 8:17 pm
Thank you..
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March 28, 2017 at 8:17 pm
You are always welcome!!!
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March 28, 2017 at 7:28 pm
People buy Orgasm but cant true love.
There is nothing to believe in First sight love.
Very Well written.
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March 28, 2017 at 8:16 pm
Thanks neel.. good to know that you too don’t believe in love at first sight
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March 28, 2017 at 8:40 pm
Mee too. Found Somenone similar catching the soul like u.
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March 28, 2017 at 7:00 pm
First sight love is a big puzzle for me.Before 16 years I got arranged marriage with an unknown fellow.I trust my parents choice so I was sure everything will be fine.Today we love each other most.Acceptance is the most important thing in love.orgasm is physical diet but love is soulful diet.In my opinion true orgasm cant be purchased It happens only when someone’s love and dedication relate it.isnt it?
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March 28, 2017 at 8:10 pm
Both are interconnected in a committed relationship..
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March 28, 2017 at 6:07 pm
Beautiful. I love this.
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March 28, 2017 at 8:09 pm
Thanks
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March 28, 2017 at 6:03 pm
Good one, dear! I don’t believe in love at first sight too (unless the object in question is food! 😉😂)
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March 28, 2017 at 8:08 pm
So let us redefine it for you.. love at first sight for food only…😂
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March 28, 2017 at 8:30 pm
Yes! Maybe we should add dogs and books to that list too. 😂😂😂
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March 28, 2017 at 8:38 pm
Books okay.. No dogs please 😉
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March 28, 2017 at 9:27 pm
Ohh not a fan of dogs!!?? 🙄😱 Sho my list won’t be complete without dogs!
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March 29, 2017 at 11:56 am
😇🤣🤣
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March 28, 2017 at 5:03 pm
So true !
now days people finds orgasm in the cover of true love
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March 28, 2017 at 8:07 pm
Hmmm… fake illusions
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March 28, 2017 at 3:11 pm
Wow…….. Nice
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March 28, 2017 at 8:05 pm
Thanks
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March 28, 2017 at 1:49 pm
http://www.youramazingbrain.org/lovesex/sciencelove.htm
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March 28, 2017 at 8:04 pm
Ah.. many more hormones too scientifically…👍
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March 28, 2017 at 8:37 pm
Yup…
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March 29, 2017 at 11:53 am
Ugadi…🤔
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March 29, 2017 at 4:41 pm
Yeah..Google told me
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March 29, 2017 at 11:54 am
Will check it soon
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March 28, 2017 at 1:49 pm
That’s bold,but true.love is like a natural calamity.we can’t make it happen forcefully,but when it comes we can’t even stop that.That sweet damage when we hit by that is eternal in soul.
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March 28, 2017 at 8:04 pm
Calamity..😉… like tsunami
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March 28, 2017 at 8:37 pm
Any natural calamity,you can name it anything
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March 28, 2017 at 1:16 pm
Bold and power packed, Akhi! The truth well expressed 👍
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March 28, 2017 at 5:35 pm
Thanks my dear..
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March 28, 2017 at 1:08 pm
Wow! This was good!
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March 28, 2017 at 1:17 pm
Thank you
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March 28, 2017 at 12:27 pm
Even I don’t believe in love at first sight it has to come naturally and very nicely u have written Akhila. Love has to happen it is not a game
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March 28, 2017 at 1:09 pm
True..it’s not a game ..it’s all about two loving souls.. And it’s life long without any second chance…
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March 28, 2017 at 1:14 pm
Yes absolutely true and can’t play with someone feelings too
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March 28, 2017 at 5:33 pm
Yes..just respect their feeling and give them enough space
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March 28, 2017 at 5:39 pm
Yes
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March 28, 2017 at 10:52 am
unity of souls is more important before bodies unite.. thats what i feel . good one akhila.. somehow these days you are making me agree on your points .. haha:)
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March 28, 2017 at 1:11 pm
Thanks sup..when you agree i don’t have anything to say more😉
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March 28, 2017 at 1:12 pm
You’re humble ..:)
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March 28, 2017 at 10:21 am
wow never expected such bold notion from you…read this wrote on the same line as your notion…
https://thoughtsofwordsblog.wordpress.com/2017/03/26/satisfaction/
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March 28, 2017 at 1:13 pm
Thanks sangabad..will read your post
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March 28, 2017 at 9:36 am
“The orgasm has replaced the Cross as the focus of longing and the image of fulfillment.”
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March 28, 2017 at 1:28 pm
When the focus is shifted from love, the life just become mechanical
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March 28, 2017 at 9:10 am
I don’t believe in love at first sight even though people hav told me that its like u felk for a person instantly just like u know her from a long time,but it later end up to be lust or infactuation and the intensity of love is different fr different people,some say love just for like and for some others love is like forever feeling and yes for sex u can choose anyone but love is not easy to find.nice one!
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March 28, 2017 at 10:53 am
hey crys.. wer ru lost these days
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March 28, 2017 at 11:12 am
Ha ha im not lost,I am here itself sup:)
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March 28, 2017 at 1:31 pm
Thanks crys.. Love could be varying wrt people….i can never have a second thought or second chance in my love life..but there are many who are ready for that, even accepting many lovers at a time..
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March 28, 2017 at 1:34 pm
Yup even I beieve In being loyal to that one person.but the perception of love is different fr them so according to them its ok but we don’t find any depth of value in that.
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March 28, 2017 at 5:36 pm
Exactly.. good to know your thoughts in the same lines
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March 28, 2017 at 8:02 pm
Yeah..let them be in their own ways..
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March 28, 2017 at 8:46 pm
Yup its thr life,let them do whatever,we r no-one to judge and we will live according to our morals:)
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March 28, 2017 at 8:48 pm
That’s it crys.. Why should we worry upon them, thinking unnecessarily..
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March 28, 2017 at 9:03 pm
Yup!exactly.
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March 28, 2017 at 9:03 pm
I like all ur article,its nice and different,always I come up with something new and interesting.keep it up.
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March 29, 2017 at 11:57 am
Thanks a lot for your kind words..have a wonderful day
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March 30, 2017 at 9:13 am
My pleasure dear.
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