Do you love me out of true love or out of responsibility?

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Do you love me out of true love or out of responsibility?

A question with every lovers..

But I will say, “You won’t get an immediate answer. Waite and see”

What do you say and which one do you prefer – the morally aided love or unconditional love?

109 responses to “Do you love me out of true love or out of responsibility?”

  1. Jeni G.J Avatar

    Love unconditionally. Let that be a motto.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yesss…thanks jeni

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      1. Jeni G.J Avatar

        I’m trying too…You’re welcome akhila.

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  2. thewritewomanblog Avatar

    I have a friend who came to the UAE on a job, her neighbor’s son (who was already in the UAE) was given the ‘responsibility’ to take care of her until she settled down. This responsibility turned into love and now he and she are ‘responsible’ for one another as they are very much man and wife and very much in love too. 😉

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ha ha nice counter story…so far so good, alle

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  3. SumitOfficial Avatar

    Unconditional love Series by SumitOfficial and Shreya 😍😘😂😁😉

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ha ha.. Yes..

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      1. SumitOfficial Avatar

        😅😅😅

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  4. Joker Shayar Avatar

    true love brings the responsibility i think…

    but every responsibility doesn’t bring love with it …

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  5. extinct0703 Avatar

    Akhila you’re a perfect mental gym

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      So far so good.. Shhhh

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      1. extinct0703 Avatar

        Hehehehe

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  6. Shiva Malekopmath Avatar

    True Love or Responsible Love, that’s a very interesting question.
    I feel Love grows and matures as time passes by, the give and take, the understanding for each other, the concern for one another, so on and so forth that you can say is true Love which is also responsible.
    Conditions are Unconditional when it comes to Love.
    Good One,
    Regards,
    Shiva

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks shiva sir.. I agree with you on the growing love.. Yes it grows and matures. Nothing can beat true love..It’s always unconditional

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      1. Shiva Malekopmath Avatar

        Akhila I was just thinking about your post only.
        Is there anything called as Responsible Love, I think it shall not be. It is more of a duty bound but not Love at all. I hope you understand.

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Duty bound love is there..it’s happening all around.. Maybe you know it better than me..as you said, it cannot be called as love, that i agree

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          1. Shiva Malekopmath Avatar

            That’s it!

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  7. Meenakshi Sethi Avatar

    Responsibilities don’t even feel like burden in unconditional love since that love has no conditions, it is free and selfless. For me only unconditional love is love all other is just business!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yes..i know your answer meenakshi.. And i have no doubt upon that unconditional

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  8. tingleurtastebuds Avatar

    Love can only come be true. The responsibility will come because of that true love. Hope I am clear.
    Meena

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks meena.. As you said responsibilities or whatever may join love gradually on a long run.. But it will happen automatically..isnt it

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      1. tingleurtastebuds Avatar

        Yes.

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  9. crashingstone Avatar

    To love or not to love that is the question!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Well.. My crazy mind didn’t stop there..😉

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      1. crashingstone Avatar

        Lol quiet a imaginative mind you have.. Btw where did your mind wander to after “there”

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  10. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

    A very thoughtful post.
    We always want the unconditional love but then not all of us get such pure love.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Hmm.. That’s sad that all of us are not blessed like that..

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  11. PriyaPandian Avatar

    Well written Akhila. Your writing lead me to think about it. That’s what a writer needs 👍

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks priya. So where did you reach now…

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      1. PriyaPandian Avatar

        My pleasure dear. I go by the side of unconditional love. It then gradually leads to responsibility 😊

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Agree with you priya.. Once we realize it’s love, everything happens automatically

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          1. PriyaPandian Avatar

            Yeah ofcourse👍😊😊

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          2. PriyaPandian Avatar

            Yeah ofcourse 😊👍👍

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  12. prashantt Avatar
    prashantt

    Ahaaa….my kind of question first time on your board haha..lol!
    To be very honest where there is a true love there comes a responsibilty and yes true love is unconditional but when it comes your way you enjoys the responsibilities attached to it too.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Love varies from people to people.. it’s okay when responsibilities are attached to that, or rather responsibility comes in naturally.. But i don’t think the vice versa would be true..

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      1. prashantt Avatar
        prashantt

        You might be right as i haven’t came across to the responsibilities yet so morever my opinion is based on observations only.

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          😊

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  13. Varsh Avatar

    Both have their own charm. Wouldn’t we want to be loved unconditionally by someone and because we are related to our parents and siblings?

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Love unconditionally without any obligations…😊

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  14. Shweta Suresh Avatar

    Very deep thought indeed. Everyone wants unconditional love but I think sometimes people settle for far less because of the illusion of true, unconditional love.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks shweta..many a times people are forced to compromise…the sad reality

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  15. A Avatar
    A

    Unconditional always

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Say, there shouldn’t be any conditions like he or she should love me only..in this way..?

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  16. Confused Thoughts Avatar

    Actually I am confused !
    Still have no answer but now I will start finding the answer

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Oh.. So think and let us know

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      1. Confused Thoughts Avatar

        Lack of experience I would like to say I don’t know but if we think about parent or siblings then it shows their unconditional love so I can say yes I would like to prefer unconditional !

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          That’s a nice answer.. And i wish you to have more personal experiences asap..

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          1. Confused Thoughts Avatar

            Thank you so much 🙏

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  17. kawsreflections Avatar

    Very beautiful. I love everyone unconditionally. Unconditional love is the only way to end all the hate and anger that’s in our world today.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      That’s so nice of you to love everyone unconditionally…

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      1. kawsreflections Avatar

        It’s in my nature. I like that about myself.

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          😊👍

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  18. andysmerdon Avatar

    Unconditional love for me – I don’t want my wife to love me simply because she feels some responsibility towards me… She is not in love with me if this is the case. I feel responsible for the safety of people who work with me and some of them I even love ( in a platonic fashion) but just because feel that responsibility, I do not need to love them… Only care for them. I think unconditional love and responsibility can me mutually exclusive 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks andy. I agree with you. I too dont want to be loved out of responsibility…

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  19. Jothish Joseph Avatar

    It’s like the phrase, “Caught between the devil and the deep blue sea.” Not in the sense that they are dangerous, but it’s a really tough choice. Love is so confusing at times that it’s hard to actually answer such a thought provoking question. Like every human is unique, so is their concept about love. Nobody is ever satisfied with any answer about love.
    Of the answer is “out of responsibility,” then the retuen question would be “am I a burden?” And if the answer is “true love,” the counter question would be “really?”
    The best answer would be to say, “Look into my eyes and find the answer by yourself, my answer is beyond words!”

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ha ha.. Rofl.. I have nothing to say😂😂😂

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      1. Jothish Joseph Avatar

        😊😊

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  20. theonlysup Avatar

    with love comes responsibilities.. so you cannot deny both . you love and hence you are morally socially emotionally financially responsible for each other’s life dream desires etc..

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Hmm.. The practical approach, i should say.. But my mind wont agree to that fully

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      1. theonlysup Avatar

        thats my experience 🙂

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          ☺ i respect that and obviously people need to have difference in opinions..otherwise we may all look alike…it will be so boring, no

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          1. theonlysup Avatar

            ofcourse .. my perspective are many a times different than yours .. nothing wrong.. thats how we grow.. by respecting the differences isnt it 🙂 thanks akhila . keep writing such thought provoking post

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            1. Akhila Avatar

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    2. SumitOfficial Avatar

      But Sup, here what Akhila asked was- Are you loving the other person with all your hearts or you’re just making them feel that you love them, but internally you don’t care much.

      For example, if there are two lovers who are committed. A girl messages the boy “I love you” the boy is sitting somewhere in his own world. He just replies to the message just because the girl must be waiting and not because he really feels so.

      I’m sorry for the pathetic example 😂
      I hope you understood what I tried to convey. 😁😂😂😂

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      1. theonlysup Avatar

        Bhai pyar ka puchnama bhool gaya ?? Just kidding .. Yes I’ll reply to this soon in more detail Sumit

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        1. SumitOfficial Avatar

          Haha.. please do🙃😁

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      2. Akhila Avatar

        You read me very well sumit..

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        1. SumitOfficial Avatar

          Yayyyy😅

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  21. girlandworld Avatar

    Wonderful creation yet again..love it is

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      It is love..still there is a but😉

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  22. foreverjunoon Avatar

    प्यार किया है तो निभाना है
    निभाना है तो हर जिम्मेदारी उठाना है लेकिन वो भी प्यार से औपचारिकता या दबाव से नहीं।सम्मान आधारशिला है।

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      If duty is cominng out of love, yes it’s agreeable..but not viceversa..

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      1. foreverjunoon Avatar

        When we love someone responsblities are being fulfiled automatically

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Yess.. It will happen naturally.. But you can’t sustain in a long term relationship purely out of responsibility alone ..that’s what i feel

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          1. foreverjunoon Avatar

            They are in combo.And one thing more conditions and responsblities are different.Why guys are raising the matter of unconditional love.

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              Ha. I liked your motive behind the last question

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  23. supercalifragilisticxpialidocious Avatar
    supercalifragilisticxpialidocious

    A mixture of both. ☺

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Hehe.. Better version…

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    2. Akhila Avatar

      And do you add something more to the mixture 😉

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      1. supercalifragilisticxpialidocious Avatar
        supercalifragilisticxpialidocious

        Peanuts and cashew nuts 😂😂 it makes the mixture tasty 😁😁

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Lol.. You have become predictable now, atleast for me

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          1. supercalifragilisticxpialidocious Avatar
            supercalifragilisticxpialidocious

            Na na. I am never predictable 😎

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              But i expected the peanuts and cashew nuts

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              1. supercalifragilisticxpialidocious Avatar
                supercalifragilisticxpialidocious

                That is because it goes in the mixtures available in shops 😛

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                1. Akhila Avatar

                  Oh.. Anyway i should think that, no.. So will see next time again

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                  1. supercalifragilisticxpialidocious Avatar
                    supercalifragilisticxpialidocious

                    😎😎

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  24. Reflection of Observer Avatar

    Both are conditions now ….
    How a blindman loves his partner?
    Love all with your heart not mind.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      So what’s that definition of unconditional love..

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      1. Reflection of Observer Avatar

        No definition. If anyone try to define, it will conditional..lol
        Love =Love♥♥
        Don’t ask definition of love..jagratee

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Ha ha…okay agreed…

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  25. Letters That Matter Avatar

    Very well said.

    Sent me in deep thoughts. Thanks:)

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks.. But do you mind letting us know what do you think on this…

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      1. Letters That Matter Avatar

        Sure.

        I thought about it and I believe if you love someone truly you automatically develop a feeling of responsibility. You care about the person and you start developing a feeling that it’s your responsibility to make the other person happy. ☺️

        It’s not only about love between a boy and a girl. It’s about any love, love between a father and a son or love between brothers or friends. ☺️

        That’s what I believe 😊

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Hmm.. Good to know this..responsibilities are always based on some moral codes. Isnt it… So do you think that you love your kids or loved ones because you have to do that, it’s your duty or responsibility …

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          1. Letters That Matter Avatar

            No No I don’t love someone because I have to do that. I love them that’s why I do that for them. I think they are two different things

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              Yes.exactly that was my question.. Do you love them out of love or out of responsibility.. Now i k.ow your answer..😊

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              1. Letters That Matter Avatar

                😊

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  26. buddy71 Avatar

    one should be responsible in/with love and treat it like one would if cultivating a plant. it must be cared for. if left alone, it will wither and die.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks a lot for your words. I respect your views even though my mind can’t agree to that..

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      1. buddy71 Avatar

        It’s OK to disagree. If we all thought alike…how boring life would be.

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Thanks a lot for understanding. You are right, if everyone thinks alike, the would would have been less challenging

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  27. Pinkspen Avatar

    Beautifully said…. I have asked myself this in my relationship, and i always pray that love prevails. thank you for sharing. Please check out my blog. I would love your feedback!v

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks a lot for your feedback.. Yes, true love always prevails.. I too believe in ‘love out of love’

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      1. Pinkspen Avatar

        True indeed!!!!!

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  28. mylittlepursuitsofhappyness Avatar

    When you love unconditionally, responsibility comes along with it naturally, but if loves comes with the responsibility of giving love because of certain conditions then it won’t flourish.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      That’s it.. I agree with you fully.. Responsibility comes in natually in true love.. It’s actually embedded..no need to even think about it..

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  29. Sangbad Avatar

    Both are dangerous, both are not. If you ask me I’ll prefer an amalgamation of the two…proportion is in own hands…

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ha ha.. I like that amalgamation..

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      1. Sangbad Avatar

        a smiley

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