I can never dislike you

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Many a times, I wondered why I couldn’t throw people out of my life when their crooked eyes are discomforting me.

Then I thought, there won’t be much harm they caused me or causing me to dislike them. May be it’s my fault to place them in those crooked seats.

Again I was not quite sure, “Is there any such people in my life?”

May be that’s why I donno the distress behind ‘hatred’.

But I am not a saint anymore to get rid of such feelings. I wish if I could hate those crooked eyes..

But on a long run, I realised “I can never dislike the crooked eyes. Definitely I will filter their words and notions out of my life if it’s hurting my ego, but never the soul behind it. “

87 responses to “I can never dislike you”

  1. thewritewomanblog Avatar

    Yes, so true. When we do not get the reaction and response of the person in question the way we expect it, then they take a back seat in our life. Some are really and intentionally crooked, just to shake you up a bit or show their power or flaunt their ego, but it is how you decide to react to it that matters. If you were ‘great’ enough to ignore it all and go on as if nothing has happened, then you have attained ‘sainthood’ otherwise you are just human.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Maybe time has got a role there to heal everything..or maybe saints have that control of time to ignore the bad .

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      1. thewritewomanblog Avatar

        Yup, may be.

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  2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

    I know, sometimes we just cannot dislike them.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Not only sometimes, but always for me..😉

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  3. Nisthur Anadi Avatar
    Nisthur Anadi

    Hi

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  4. shilpamohan5 Avatar

    Well said..And true that..We can never dislike some people,we can only filter them..Idk why

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      True…

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  5. Mr.Lonely Avatar

    Well, I could definitely throw people out of my life neither I can’t filter their wounds.. I am so weak … but yes, I have found a way to live on my own walking through the stoning by my dear ones…

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Happy for you that you have found your own way..that’s all one needed

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      1. Mr.Lonely Avatar

        Thank you ma’am 😊

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  6. kittysverses Avatar

    Loved the thought! Superb.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thank you so much

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      1. kittysverses Avatar

        Welcome 🙂

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  7. vishal4u Avatar

    Hating someone or disliking anyone is ok and the best way is to avoid them if you can but if you can’t then we must learn to see through such people and their crooked eyes also.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Agree with you fully.. we need to develop that skill to read from their crooked eyes

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      1. vishal4u Avatar

        Or otherwise we must learn to see through them.

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Yeah…wearing their shoes..

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  8. Shiva Malekopmath Avatar

    It is Great to say so, though, but seeing ourselves from their angle👀 is also important, why should one’s eyes be crooked for no reason.
    Purity in our activity is the criteria. It may go to this extent, that our purity may wash their impurity.😃
    Disliking may hurt our own ego not theirs. They are reckless and do not bother so bothering about them shall bother us. Hahaha
    It is better to avoid than to involve.
    Crooked things are Crooked we need not mend to bend them. 😉
    So Words do have Notions.
    Akhila👌👏🙏
    Shiva🎶

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks a lot shiva sir. Your words emphasizes two main things, see ourselves from their angle and bothering about them will bother us..I am understanding it fully

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  9. Shreya Sharma Avatar

    I wish I could.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Hmm…🙃

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  10. Parvathy Sarat Avatar

    Loved this one! Often I hear of people blocking out certain others entirely ‘because of negative vibes’. But nobody is entirely negative, the world isn’t black and white.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yup paravathy.. we must the must accept the grey areas too

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  11. I can never dislike you – 🍁 K SMITH ANIL Avatar

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  12. girlandworld Avatar

    U should throw out ppl who r not good for u

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      ha.. should I.. doubtful..

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      1. girlandworld Avatar

        Loved ur new pic

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          oh.. really.. thank you dear…blushing me..;)

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  13. SumitOfficial Avatar

    Awwwwwwwwwww😍😍😍😍

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      😘😘😘😘

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      1. SumitOfficial Avatar

        😉

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  14. Zee Avatar

    Wow…these are such deep thoughts. Especially the last line: Definitely I will words their words and notions out of my life if it’s hurting my ego. But never the soul behind it.
    Damn. This hits home run !

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks zee..hope you are not confused..;)

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      1. Zee Avatar

        Hah no I’m not 😉😉

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          😉😉😉😉😉😉

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  15. Roberta Pimentel Avatar

    Well expressed!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks Roberta.. have a great time

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  16. lizalizaskysaregrey Avatar

    Thank you for sharing this, it is very thought provoking and I will spend time thinking on it. You are right, love conquers all and we should send love out into the world, particularly to those who spread hate, or those crooked people as you put it. I’m not so sure I would like to surround myself with these people but that might be a measure of my own soul? 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      yes liza.. it is difficult to allow those crooked eyes around you if you cannt be attached to them..in my case, what i feel is, i have a short term memory too with respect to bad..;)

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      1. lizalizaskysaregrey Avatar

        That is very funny as I find it incredibly hard to hold a grudge and often forget what upsets me in the first place ; )

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          ha ha.. so we are on the same boat, i guess

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          1. lizalizaskysaregrey Avatar

            Looks like it 🙂

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  17. Sweta Ojha Avatar

    Totally love the perspective. I’m happy to have crossed paths with you. 🙂 Stay blessed.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks Sweta..hope you are doing well

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      1. Sweta Ojha Avatar

        Yes I am. Hope you are doing well too. 🙂

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  18. davekingsbury Avatar

    Without evil there would be no good. Your post reaches a good conclusion.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      but i doubt isnt that evil merely a state of mind or perspective difference..

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      1. davekingsbury Avatar

        I think evil is only to be found in bad human actions, or inactions where actions are needed.

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  19. skd Avatar

    Goodo akhila Greato! Yeah, keep going as you are! Crooked Eyes will become the most beautiful… Because end of the day, you see them:)) Keep smiling!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks a lot my friend.. navarathri aasamsakal

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      1. skd Avatar

        Wish you the same… Pooja vykunnundo? Tvm or kkd? 🙂

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          yes.. tvm only..

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          1. skd Avatar

            Enjoy….

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  20. vibesofacalcuttan Avatar

    It’s best to surgically remove those people from life who bring nothing but harm and distress to you, no matter how many times you try to be civil and nice. No need to hate them, or think excessively about it; just bring on pure apathy. There’s no need to care. There are still several people who bring sunshine into our lives and we are better off without the deceitful ones. 🙂 Your post is very nice and practical, many people have to face this decision almost every day!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks a lot for helping me to have a different insight…
      but you know, it is a state of mind, definitely not a confused state..

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  21. mywords331 Avatar

    Really Akhila your posts sometimes are like a mirror which shows the life and its reality..The eyes you are talking about will come in front of us at many places and as you said not being a saint it is very difficult to drag ourselves from being hurt but if we are able to ignore such unwanted eyes we are on a really track.
    I have faced this situation at my workplace.
    Believe me it was difficult but I learnt to keep control .

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      really happy with your words, especially as you too met those crooked eyes..;)

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      1. mywords331 Avatar

        Yeah..At my office😉😉

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          ya…many in an office atmosphere…which office are you working..

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          1. mywords331 Avatar

            I’m a teacher.
            I teach in a school at firozabad.
            Pgt

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              oh..okay…have a sound sleep.. good night

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  22. Bikramjit Avatar
    Bikramjit

    Well just goes to show that you are a good human being.. so be like that always. ..

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      oh.. it a symbol of being good..i dont think as i am not that good..;)

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      1. Bikramjit Avatar
        Bikramjit

        Let other descide on that.. and how do you know you are not good..

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          i know my pros and cons…

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  23. We come from dreams ~ Avatar
    We come from dreams ~

    At 68, I am too old to waste time on those who are deceitful or poisonous. No-one has any obligation to keep people like that in their lives.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      hmm.. may be you are right.. lessons from experienced hands

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  24. Josh Avatar

    Hating someone will be like drinking poison ourselves and expecting that person to die 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      may be we are blessed with short term memory with respect to bad

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  25. Varsh Avatar

    Crooked eyes can be imaginary too…or may be misunderstood…
    In any case…its better to not let them affect your take on their soul. Agree with you.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      yes, varsh.. in fact, initially i was also expecting them a case of misunderstanding….may be or may not be, i just cannt be away from them..

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      1. Varsh Avatar

        Some attachments are probably over such trivialities

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          hmm.. may be unseen

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  26. shreyans Avatar

    What a wonderful perspective…nicely done..
    Shreyans

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thank you shreyans..is it that wonderful…;)…

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      1. shreyans Avatar

        Yes it is…i dont lie..you have a great take on life

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          ha.. have a great time..

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          1. shreyans Avatar

            You too..enjoy dear

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  27. A Walk into the Woods Avatar
    A Walk into the Woods

    Tough one.. I can’t say i can do that.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      i read from your words that you understood my posts fully…ya.. it’s a state of mind.. wont happen with everyone, every time..thank you

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  28. myheartbeats4ublog Avatar

    cool…kollam, angane thanne povatte sakhave

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      blushing me..

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      1. myheartbeats4ublog Avatar

        hahaha…grinning me

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  29. Shalini Sharrma Avatar

    Trust me Akhila, soul is always pure to blame at. Its actions and words that hurt our so called ego as you mentioned, you’re on right track if you are able to throw their crooked words and such things that takes aways your peace of mind 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks a lot my dear.. your words are really soothing..

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      1. Shalini Sharrma Avatar

        welcome 🙂

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