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Observe, Don't just see


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Female Behaviour – 16

She forgets everything with his single touch Then she just prefers to be hugged. Even if she may be angry or worried, everything melts away while being in his arms (Female Behaviour – 2. )It’s something above to her practical mind which tries to wake up her ego and fails ultimately. Even she doesn’t know how to define that emotional bond.


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Changing moments

He: You are not my cup of tea

She: I am impressed with your frankness

He: Thanks for adding a little sugar to my tea

She: But I don’t like flirting guys

He: I hate these girls’ demos

She: But I love you for who you are

He: Hey, now you are my cup of tea

She: I hate these guys switching frequently.


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Female Behaviour – 15

Reassure her daily that you will always be there for her, because yesterday’s reassurance won’t count today  😉

the series continues..

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Female Behaviour – 13

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I am on my Periods

“I am on my Periods, I am bleeding”, how it can be different from breathing or digesting. It’s just another very normal biological phenomenon.

But people are uncomfortable to talk about it; they feel embarrassed even if they talk about it…Another stereotypic impression.

“We are not shy anymore. We are not dealing with any nuclear bombs as Shreya said. We, the girls are likely to bleed for between 2,000 to 3,000-plus days in our lifetimes. So this bloody thing is no more a taboo.”

Mysterious Soul

Few days ago, I had gone to a nearby shop to buy sanitary pads and it was when I noticed that shopkeeper was looking for a newspaper to wrap up the packet in it to ensure the thing won’t be visible even before putting it in a poly bag. He took about a couple of minutes for the task and I was already getting restless to leave. So I just told him, ”Uncle bomb nhi hai, esehi dedo” (“It’s not a nuclear bomb, give it as it is”). And then his expression was indescribable as he saw me weirdly without saying anything and handed it to me directly putting it into poly bag. I left.

The above incident hasn’t happened just only at a particular place but I have noticed such happenings in various places. How pathetic! The thing could appear a jiffy matter to anyone but no doubt, these…

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Men and Women


Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed. ― Albert Einstein

Hmm.. Was this statement made by Einstein…from physics to psychology? well, I am not quite sure.

Anyway you have something to say on this quote, no ; )


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Polygamy

Why do people insist on Ekapathi (single husband for a woman) while Ekapathni (single wife for a man) is not emphasised..? Yes, there could be exceptions; still polygyny is prevalent.

Polygyny was permitted in many places at one time. When the population of women was exceeding than that of men (due to war and all), polygyny was permitted, in order to save the female generation from prostitution and poverty.

But now the conditions have changed, we are not living in that dark era.  Still the rules haven’t altered. Polygayny is permitted in many countries even now.

They will preach for ‘Ekpathi vratha’ (single husband for a woman) while engaging themselves with many women. They are least bothered on the sentiments of their wives. Even those people who support polygyny will raise their voice against polyandry.

So ultimately they know the ethical aspect behind that. Or at least they are aware of the danger behind that. Or they can’t bear even the thought of sharing their woman.

It is not like, ‘if polygynyy is there, polyandry should also be there’. It is not a matter of seeking liberation for women. Both cases should be controlled, for ensuring a healthy social life.

Okay, I mentioned about the ethical aspect. But I know that, there is no point in speaking such ethics in front of the people supporting this polygamous animalistic behaviour. So all I can state is, you can do that as long as you are not hurting your partner. Or else, why do you want a partner/soul-mate in such a case…all are your partners, no.. ;). And you are just helping the nation to have many more citizens in a short span of time (9 women can give birth to 9 kids in 9 months’ time while one women can have only one kid in the same span ) ..  oh ! It’s such an unselfish profit.. …

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Translated version of  my yesterdays post ബഹുഭാര്യാത്വം


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ബഹുഭാര്യാത്വം

സ്ത്രീകള്‍ ഏകപതീവ്രതമെടുക്കുമ്പോള്‍ പുരുഷന്‍ എന്തിനു ബഹുഭാര്യാത്വം സ്വീകരിക്കുന്നു..?

ഇതൊരു പൊതുതത്വം ഒന്നുമല്ല..എന്നാലും ഇന്നും പലയിടങ്ങളിലും നിലനിന്നുപോരുന്ന ഒരു നഗ്ന സത്യം. ഒത്തിരി അപവാദങ്ങളുമുള്ള സത്യം.

മതങ്ങളും ആചാരങ്ങളും ഒക്കെ തത്ക്കാലം മറക്കാം. പകരം, അബലയെന്നു വ്യാഖ്യാനിക്കപ്പെട്ട സ്ത്രീയെക്കുറിച്ചൊന്നു ചിന്തിക്കാം.

അവളെ രക്ഷിക്കാന്‍ വേണ്ടീയായിരുന്നോ ഇതു..?

അതോ, മറ്റൊരു ലാഭക്കച്ചവടമോ..?
ഒരു സ്ത്രീ 9 മാസം കൊണ്ടു ഒരു കുഞ്ഞിനെ തരുമ്പോള്‍ 10 സ്ത്രീകള്‍ 9 മാസങ്ങള്‍ കൊണ്ട് 10 കുഞ്ഞുങ്ങളെ ജനിപ്പിക്കുമല്ലോ..? അതൊരു വലിയ ലാഭം തന്നെയല്ലോ. സ്വന്തം രാജ്യത്തിനു കൂടുതല്‍ പൌരന്മാരെ നല്‍കാനുള്ള നിസ്വാര്‍ഥപരമായ ലാഭം.. 😉


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She is not an object

She is not a toy for men’s pleasure. Everywhere we see protest going on against female trading. Yes, many a times, she is trapped into prostitution.

Even then, there is another side for this objectification. She herself accounts herself as an object for his satisfaction. She is treating herself as a sex object. She is stereotyped to live in that way. And rarely does she understand her own mind-trap. It’s all about interpretation.

So Girls, wake up and most importantly awaken your sisters.


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Replace your lying mirror with an honest one

The mirror told her, “How gorgeous you are!”

Her mind whispered, “Why not a selfie?”

Tried in different angles, different poses, and different looks.

But nothing came out well.

She thought, “Hmm, it’s time to replace my phone”

Someone else whispered, “Better you replace the lying mirror with an honest one