ചെയ്തു ഞാന് നിന്നെയേറെ മുമ്പേ
I don’t find true love or romance in you guy’s relationship.
Oops… How dare I to say that. Who am I to judge someone else relationship. After all who am I to define love?
What is love.. love is just love.. nothing more to say.. It’s good enough as it’s not an abstract thing to be defined.
Your version of love may not be like my version. It doesn’t imply that you are only right or I am. People may be expressive or non-expressive. Let them be as they are.
If there is love, the bond will be multidimensional comprising all the emotions under a single umbrella. It will have care, trust, lust, passion, longing, addiction, possessiveness, compassion, attraction, attachment, affection and comfort (and many more). There is always enough space for you to release your temper, grief, and any pain.
And yeah, hormones such as oxytocin also have a main role to play in love. Maybe that’s why you cannot force some to love you or prevent someone from loving you.
And above all to the superficial feelings, there develops a quite natural bond as you go on. And that natural addiction will be evidenced in your actions.
You can buy an orgasm, but never love. No love for sale is so far available in the markets.
Well, this is how I outline love up to certain extent, and yes I don’t believe in first sight love.
He: You are not my cup of tea
She: I am impressed with your frankness
He: Thanks for adding a little sugar to my tea
She: But I don’t like flirting guys
He: I hate these girls’ demos
She: But I love you for who you are
He: Hey, now you are my cup of tea
She: I hate these guys switching frequently.
Language of mind is not unknown. Knew that words should not be taken at it’s true sense when anger is at someone’s nose tip. Still those fiery words can pierce deep in heart, make your eyes raining, freeze your mind, depart you from love as well as hatred and finally make you emotionless.
Can you accept that baseline neutrality ?
Translated version of രാഗതടാകങ്ങള് 😇