She forgets everything with his single touch Then she just prefers to be hugged. Even if she may be angry or worried, everything melts away while being in his arms (Female Behaviour – 2. )It’s something above to her practical mind which tries to wake up her ego and fails ultimately. Even she doesn’t know how to define that emotional bond.
She : Why did you go there now?
He : You know, my friend called me in the morning. He told that one of our old class mates wanted to meet all of us. So the………………………………………………………………………………………………………….
She can easily smell the mystery (if there is one) in his mind when he starts to mimic the rehearsed story at the very first moment on hearing her ‘what’s up’. So the story will end up either with a loud laugh or a big fight…Just wait and see 😉
Never try to understand her fully, You will fail 😉
Better to enjoy life with her and love her.
She: You know, while I was in the vegetable shop, I saw that little boy whom we met last day
He: Which boy, I don’t remember.
She: Ehh.. The poor boy, how long he talked to you in the museum, and you have forgotten him so easily…so sad it is..!
She:……( she just continues)
She: Tell me, what are you thinking?
He: Nothing (without taking his eyes off the TV)
She: No, no.. Something is there puzzling you.
He: No dear, I am perfectly okay…let me watch the show
She: You are always like this, never interested to hear me talk.
He: Please keep quite babe..
She: Oh.. What did I do while I have more brain cells dedicated to talk to you.
Venue: A shopping mall
He: Make it fast. We are running short of time.
She: Five more minutes.
(After 1o minutes)
He: Did you select anything?
She: You see, I am neither impressed at the first looks nor can I select something of poor quality. And so five more minutes…;)
Mr X : Wow.. look at her..
Mr Y :Oooh..
Mr X : ……..
If she had a boyish figure, will she be a blossom in your eyes..?
If she doesn’t have that curves and curls, will you still ogle her..?
Is it because of the feminine shape, she is being stared?
Why don’t you take your eyes off her?
Or are you simply enjoying the beauty of the world in her face..?
I know that it is a common guy thing to appreciate a girl’s beauty. So there’s nothing to be done on that. And we girls also appreciate the beauty in you, guys.
Looking is not that bad, but when it becomes ogling/staring for a long time, the situation changes. It is inappropriate and should be stopped as and when she is uncomfortable.
And she can easily read from his body language when that looking turns out to be an ogling.
Beware; there are two more eyes which got burnt in those awkward looks. And the fire from her eyes is well enough to pierce into his veins making it bleeding.
I wish if he could just imagine himself in her position… And above all he is disrespecting not only her but also himself with that dirty looks.
And another fact is that she might have tuned into a mute mode with that constant ogling. Then she is in fact pitying him, reading him, reading him as an undignified figure.
Daughter :Mom..what a surprise! How long it had been since we met.
Mother : I took duty off and thought to give you a surprise.
Mother : Here it is..open this..your favourite item
Daughter : wow… Mom, how long had it been I tasted this! Love you mom..
Mother : Don’t you know how to prepare this..?
Daughter : Yes Mom, I know. But he don’t like this.
Mother : So what..why can’t you prepare it for yourself?
Daughter : Oh my mom, I am your daughter and I know you never prepared dishes which me and dad didn’t like. I have never seen you preparing something for you alone.
Mother : Yeah.. true..but his taste is not matching with yours too..
Daughter : Hmm..I make whatever he wants only even if it is not as per my taste. I think, I even forgot about my favourite items.. And now I love his tastes too, as much as I love him..
She was very worried and angry at him yesterday. But she was afraid to question him. She doubted if his ego got hurt on her questioning, it might force him to be away from her.
She wished if he asked about her worries. But nothing happened and his nature forced her to take a back foot.
But she just forgets everything when he touches her. Then she just prefers to be hugged. Even if she may be angry or worried, she just can’t tolerate himself being away from her.
She is not pretending to be happy when he hugs her. But naturally her worries got buried. And hence during those moments, she is afraid to question him on his actions which made her worried.
So her heart plays a game to keep herself alive. On one side it cries for his care & love and on the other side it just excuses/justifies him whenever it’s hurt.
But can her heart play this game always…?
She trusts him blindly and he is the center of her belief. Her heart won’t be alive at all to forgive him, if he has betrayed her love and trust.
So definitely her heart won’t play that game if her belief is lost. She will never give a second chance in such a case. Her trust is almost impossible to earn back. Once lost, it is really lost forever. And she will never regret on losing such a person who didn’t a respect the bonds of love and trust.
And of course trust is not gender specific. I was just trying to portrait the tenderness as well as stubbornness of her behaviour.
Do you mind to check Female Behaviour-1
she: aw, thanks.
he : you always have a got a good color sense
she: thanks yaar
he : ……….the chat continues.
Do you really think that the girl enjoys his talking?
She is in fact pity for him as he does not understand how easily he lost his self-esteem.
And definitely exceptions may be there. i.e. there may be girls who like flattering and flirting…
But a self-respecting girl would definitely feel it to be boring and so not genuine. She could never enjoy such blah blah words and definitely she would escape from the situation.