Words and Notion

Observe, Don't just see


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A Recipient centric gift or a Giver centric gift?

She was overwhelmed with joy when he offered her the tiny globe.

Because she knew how much he valued the little earth.

So what’s your best fit while choosing something for your loved one- A Recipient centric gift or a Giver centric gift?

A recipient centric gift would make the receiver happy always [But only if the giver’s guesses worked properly while selecting the best fit gift].

Now what if your loved one offered you the thing which is most valuable in his/her eyes? Wont it be much more beautiful when you feel that treasure he/she has shared with you [A giver centric gift]


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I know what it is

When things are said with solid reasons in the simplest form, it becomes much more understandable.

There is no much sense in telling like “I know what it is and how it will end”, if you don’t know how to present it to the world. People won’t be ready to accept or understand your gut instinct if you fail to define it in common man language. And subsequently your followers will a miss a chance to learn a great lesson.


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White lies come back to bite you

Tomato didn’t like Potato, and potato didnt like tomato. Though they never dare to declare an open war, I was “brilliant” enough to understand the cold war happening between them. They cannot be blamed on starting the cold war as being brought up in a competitive climate.

Growing them together was really tough for me. With some ups and downs both of them were nourished in a decent way. I took extra care not to hurt the ego of any of them. Whenever I have to take a special care on any one of them due to xyz reasons, I was forced to keep my eyes shut towards the dark face of the other one. Many times somehow I could escape from the verge of lies.

This time also, I was struggling. I know a lie can never rectify the problem. It may just calm down the other, but I may get tensed if a family of lies are following the first one even if those are for some good causes.

Nothing wrong would have happened with the tomato or potato with a lie to please one of them. But my wandering mind would think over and over and finally start criticizing myself. So I decided to make it guilt free. I am relieved now with the truth.

White lies are heard here and there. Even if its harmless, I wonder “wont it hurt your soul?, wont it make oneself tensed? wont your brain feel guilty?”

PS: Tomato and Potato need not be persons, could be any two contradictory things or interests in your life.


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What others think

Do you worry too much about what others think of you ?  Do you always try to become that likable type or wish at least not to become the hateable ones?

Obviously it is very human nature. Exceptions are there, like the don’t care types. But everyone cannot be that don’t care types. They are hurt and bothered with the “am I misunderstood? ” syndrome.

So do you have this syndrome, how do you try to escape from that?

Anyway, one’s integrity cannot be compromised while trying to be the likable types as mentioned in waves of notion

 


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Winning people over

Janaki didn’t like what Vyshnavi was doing. In her views it was totally rubbish. And Vyshanavi didn’t care much. She just went on quietly though she was a little sad.  Janaki never missed a chance to depreciate Vyshanavi’s act whenever possible.

Whenever something goes wrong with V , J said “This is why I told you to stop this rubbish thing”. J was extremely good in self marketing and so obviously her views always had an edge over Vyshnavi’s. She had that innate power to make things in her control, make other believe what she said was right (even while truth was on the other side of the universe). And she could easily grab everyone’s attention too.

No one is perfect, so as J and V. But with whom do you stand? With the marketing minded one or the other silent one? At the end, who would appear fruitful?


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Escape from dilution

Day 1: “I am running late, so let me skip the morning work out . I am doing it regularly, so no issues if I skip on a  day”

Day 2: “It’s heavily raining. Seems I cannt go out for jogging. Will go tomorrow for sure”

Day 3: ” Having some pain in my legs. Better if I take rest today and skip the work out”

Day 4 : <<…….>>

No harm if you dilute things once or twice. And only the first time, you will have a reluctance to skip that [ dilute your routine]. There after you will get used to the dilution process 😉

So have that realistic plan of action as Doctor Jonathan mentioned here  if you really wanna be physically fit.

And escape from dilution.


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I had tears in my eyes, but it’s not painful

It was devastating, the entire city got crushed. People were buried alive. The three kids were screaming in the rescue center, missing their parents……..

Yes, it was very pathetic, But I didn’t cry.

Later, she was managing the entire show as her parents were killed in that attack. She took care of her sisters, fed them, slept with them.

And this time, my tears were almost on their verge of escaping..

I don’t want to control my tears, let it flow down. It was not the tears of pain, but something else, someother sort of emotions…what’s that called..?


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Ready for an argument?

Do argue if you are confident on returns, otherwise quietly quit and act on your own.

In our daily life, we all undergo different kinds of argument with our co-workers, family members, friends etc.

An argument could be constructive or destructive. Constructive is pretty clear, i.e. if we want to make something clarified we will argue and come up with outputs.

Destructive arguments happen more frequently or rather naturally. Somehow, we will be tempted to do it, forgetting about surroundings, outcomes etc. There is no value which we gain out of such argument, rather than simply losing our energy and finally ending up with some sort of negative vibrations around us.

If those assignments are of planned stuffs, normally we will have some expected results- may be positive or negative. For unplanned arguments, initially we won’t be realizing that we are falling in to it. But definitely after a moment, we will realize that our voice is increasing or temper is getting lost. And at the very next moment, just analyse the direction of argument. If you are sure of returns, continue the argument. Otherwise just pause, think and quit [ and yes go with your rights]