Do you worry too much about what others think of you ? Do you always try to become that likable type or wish at least not to become the hateable ones?
Obviously it is very human nature. Exceptions are there, like the don’t care types. But everyone cannot be that don’t care types. They are hurt and bothered with the “am I misunderstood? ” syndrome.
So do you have this syndrome, how do you try to escape from that?
Anyway, one’s integrity cannot be compromised while trying to be the likable types as mentioned in waves of notion