Ready for an argument?

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Do argue if you are confident on returns, otherwise quietly quit and act on your own.

In our daily life, we all undergo different kinds of argument with our co-workers, family members, friends etc.

An argument could be constructive or destructive. Constructive is pretty clear, i.e. if we want to make something clarified we will argue and come up with outputs.

Destructive arguments happen more frequently or rather naturally. Somehow, we will be tempted to do it, forgetting about surroundings, outcomes etc. There is no value which we gain out of such argument, rather than simply losing our energy and finally ending up with some sort of negative vibrations around us.

If those assignments are of planned stuffs, normally we will have some expected results- may be positive or negative. For unplanned arguments, initially we won’t be realizing that we are falling in to it. But definitely after a moment, we will realize that our voice is increasing or temper is getting lost. And at the very next moment, just analyse the direction of argument. If you are sure of returns, continue the argument. Otherwise just pause, think and quit [ and yes go with your rights]

29 responses to “Ready for an argument?”

  1. Alex Avatar
    Alex

    You actually make it appear really easy together with your presentation but I to find this topic to be actually something which I think I’d by no means understand. It sort of feels too complex and very large for me. I’m looking ahead in your subsequent put up, I’ll attempt to get the dangle of it!

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  2. thewritewomanblog Avatar

    Simply just cannot agree more on this, Akhi.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yeah..we are in the same lines

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  3. Tony Burgess Avatar

    I hate conflict and arguing. Makes me feel very uncomfortable.

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    1. tashas-tales Avatar
      tashas-tales

      Totally with you! If I can avoid unnecessary confrontation, then I will!

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    2. Akhila Avatar

      Yeah..that’s what…but mostly I love to play as a devils advocate 😉

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  4. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

    Completely understand and agree totally with your words Akhila why argue when nothing is happening and no one is wanting to keep quiet just move away and so many times these arguments lead to animosity and relationships breaking up

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yup..exactly

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

        Yes

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  5. appusweb Avatar

    ok, done👍

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      👍

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  7. myheartbeats4ublog Avatar

    so true…but unplanned, impromptu arguments are more interesting, alle

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      And kids are the best for such arguments. ..

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  8. Sakthi Avatar

    I remember politics!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      yeah.. a lot many scenarios in politics..

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      1. Sakthi Avatar

        okay. how would you handle politics?

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          oh my god.. that’s a tough question…;)

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          1. Sakthi Avatar

            being a experienced woman, you should know how to handle it 🙂 but you say its tough!

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              oh.. If I get a chance, may be I will have to. But any way not at all in my dreams..

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              1. Sakthi Avatar

                Hopefully i wish you get a chance and you succeed in it!

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                1. Akhila Avatar

                  wonderful blessing .. thank you..

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                  1. Sakthi Avatar

                    Let me see your success!

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                    1. Akhila Avatar

                      no comments..lol..;)

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                    2. Sakthi Avatar

                      action defines us i guess 🙂

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  9. Nisthur Anadi Avatar
    Nisthur Anadi

    Agreed !!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thank you..:)

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      1. Nisthur Anadi Avatar
        Nisthur Anadi

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  10. Di Avatar
    Di

    There can never be a magic pill for this. Arguments are just another means for communication. You cannot always have a constructive argument; there are times when built up emotions and frustrations needs to be let loose; care however should be taken to leave it at that. it is when we carry the baggage of these arguments around that its affects a lot of things we do. … easier said than done:)

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