Do argue if you are confident on returns, otherwise quietly quit and act on your own.
In our daily life, we all undergo different kinds of argument with our co-workers, family members, friends etc.
An argument could be constructive or destructive. Constructive is pretty clear, i.e. if we want to make something clarified we will argue and come up with outputs.
Destructive arguments happen more frequently or rather naturally. Somehow, we will be tempted to do it, forgetting about surroundings, outcomes etc. There is no value which we gain out of such argument, rather than simply losing our energy and finally ending up with some sort of negative vibrations around us.
If those assignments are of planned stuffs, normally we will have some expected results- may be positive or negative. For unplanned arguments, initially we won’t be realizing that we are falling in to it. But definitely after a moment, we will realize that our voice is increasing or temper is getting lost. And at the very next moment, just analyse the direction of argument. If you are sure of returns, continue the argument. Otherwise just pause, think and quit [ and yes go with your rights]
January 21, 2018 at 9:44 am
You actually make it appear really easy together with your presentation but I to find this topic to be actually something which I think I’d by no means understand. It sort of feels too complex and very large for me. I’m looking ahead in your subsequent put up, I’ll attempt to get the dangle of it!
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September 12, 2017 at 2:24 pm
Simply just cannot agree more on this, Akhi.
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September 13, 2017 at 5:14 pm
Yeah..we are in the same lines
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August 12, 2017 at 10:50 am
I hate conflict and arguing. Makes me feel very uncomfortable.
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August 12, 2017 at 4:04 pm
Totally with you! If I can avoid unnecessary confrontation, then I will!
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August 14, 2017 at 4:53 pm
Yeah..that’s what…but mostly I love to play as a devils advocate 😉
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August 12, 2017 at 9:41 am
Completely understand and agree totally with your words Akhila why argue when nothing is happening and no one is wanting to keep quiet just move away and so many times these arguments lead to animosity and relationships breaking up
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August 14, 2017 at 4:53 pm
Yup..exactly
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August 14, 2017 at 5:21 pm
Yes
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August 12, 2017 at 9:18 am
ok, done👍
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August 14, 2017 at 4:53 pm
👍
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May 21, 2016 at 9:41 am
so true…but unplanned, impromptu arguments are more interesting, alle
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May 23, 2016 at 6:55 pm
And kids are the best for such arguments. ..
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April 1, 2016 at 4:07 pm
I remember politics!
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April 2, 2016 at 3:56 pm
yeah.. a lot many scenarios in politics..
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April 2, 2016 at 4:07 pm
okay. how would you handle politics?
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April 2, 2016 at 4:08 pm
oh my god.. that’s a tough question…;)
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April 2, 2016 at 4:13 pm
being a experienced woman, you should know how to handle it 🙂 but you say its tough!
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April 2, 2016 at 4:23 pm
oh.. If I get a chance, may be I will have to. But any way not at all in my dreams..
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April 2, 2016 at 4:27 pm
Hopefully i wish you get a chance and you succeed in it!
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April 2, 2016 at 4:28 pm
wonderful blessing .. thank you..
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April 2, 2016 at 4:32 pm
Let me see your success!
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April 2, 2016 at 4:41 pm
no comments..lol..;)
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April 2, 2016 at 4:42 pm
action defines us i guess 🙂
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November 9, 2015 at 11:01 am
Agreed !!
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November 10, 2015 at 5:16 am
Thank you..:)
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November 10, 2015 at 6:36 am
☺
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February 21, 2014 at 7:16 am
There can never be a magic pill for this. Arguments are just another means for communication. You cannot always have a constructive argument; there are times when built up emotions and frustrations needs to be let loose; care however should be taken to leave it at that. it is when we carry the baggage of these arguments around that its affects a lot of things we do. … easier said than done:)
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