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The unquenchable thirst

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He met her. Knew that it was someone else’s wife. Initially it was just a fascination,  then love and later it turned out to be a thought to own her, a harmful obsession.

Is this not the same feeling ruling rapists..? Are they also having the similar obsession, may be on a different rate..?

(To make it clear, in this post, my intention is neither to question the faithfulness of spouses nor to violate the universal attraction law)

Author: Akhila

Akhila is a self-motivated life-long learner and a self-published author.. She posts technical articles on her blog qualitynotion.com. She runs a personal blog, wordsandnotion.com where she writes about everything from illusion to reality.

103 thoughts on “The unquenchable thirst”

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  1. Ajay Vyas
    July 16, 2017 at 2:00 pm

    Can I just say that your writing has come so very far since I have “known” you.
    You are a great talent, please keep writing ❤️

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  2. thewritewomanblog
    July 11, 2017 at 11:37 am

    I don’t think rapists have any sense of love in their intentions. When there is love automatically there is respect.

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  5. Nisthur Anadi
    June 28, 2017 at 2:18 pm

    Hi

    Like

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  6. crystalamayy
    June 28, 2017 at 2:16 pm

    Do u remember malayalam movie mazhavillu,same scenario thr.its actually complicated we can’t say what is rite and wrong in this situation.to have love for someone is normal but the situations compllicated.

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  7. Ishan Shrivastava
    October 19, 2016 at 11:20 am

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  8. Nisthur Anadi
    September 21, 2016 at 7:50 pm

    I don’t know what should I say , what to suggest .

    I would say force should not be applied in any human transactions else bliss becomes curse .

    Beautiful things turns ugly. Honey becomes poison . Freedom becomes prison. Light become darkness . Pleasure becomes pain.

    I always see things in holistic views !

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  9. Mr.Obeezy
    September 19, 2016 at 7:31 pm

    They are cursed beings, they make me regret sharing same gender…. They are yet to think above apes.

    See the stats of rape in India via my blog…men rape, and not short skirts.

    Such evil obsession.

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  10. SumitOfficial
    September 17, 2016 at 9:14 am

    The myth people have while getting attracted to someone is later they want to own them instead of loving or caring about them.

    This is the root cause.

    See, Akhila nobody wants that to happen. In my case too, (I don’t wanna drag myself) there are girls who talk for a while and later they become possessive. What does it mean they try to own. Well, my next reaction is harsh.

    Hence, I really think it’s not everyone’s cup of tea to think in a way that you do. 😉

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  11. writeshefali
    September 17, 2016 at 2:23 am

    “Uncontrollable Lust” that’s what I see… Love as far my experience goes is when you both want each other happy. It’s not a one sided affair…love is not what just makes you happy but you see to it that your significant other is happy too… So rape is out of question…Adultery can turn into love, because physical relation is also an expression of love, but obsession of anything is not good then how can it be for a person :)… 😊

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  12. Ambu R Nair
    September 17, 2016 at 1:01 am

    Dear Akhila, no rapist know the feeling of love. Nobody can harm others whom the love. Like the addiction to alcohol, a sort of excessive addition to sexual feelings is a type of madness that leads to rape. It’s a sort of timely madness. Affectionate care and control is needed to help people to free from this disastrous disease.

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  13. unsaid words
    September 16, 2016 at 4:54 pm

    Being attracted towards is a thing and being obsessed with them or with the feeling to own them is certainly not love .Its all about how you channelise your attractions .

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  14. DARKLOVE9095
    September 16, 2016 at 2:56 pm

    Hmm. Let’s drop it like a hot potato. There are plenty other good things to be talked about.

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  15. DARKLOVE9095
    September 16, 2016 at 8:11 am

    There are multiple viewpoints for this topic.
    1. See not everyone is happy from an arranged marriage and all such people have the right to speak about it to their families and get over it rather than spending whole life repenting for the choice one made in the first place. In India. “log kya kahenge” is a priority to one’s own happiness. And that’s ridiculous. So my point is if a woman (as mentioned in your post) is not happy she must make a decision and move on. And it happens so many times that after getting into a relationship or marriage, people find their true love later and they just can’t help themselves then.
    2. What rapists think is totally opposite. They carve for physical needs. It is due to the easy access made to adult pornography and misguided minds. Education is a good solution for this. There are tons of people living on streets and slums. We should educate them. And it’s not like high class people don’t rape. They do. For them, knocking them down is a option. I am of a opinion that rapists should be hanged to death. No trials, no grievance, nothing.

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    • Akhila
      September 16, 2016 at 12:21 pm

      I agree to the second point. But on the first case, what i feel is, it is dangerous when someone try to own some other without their consent, physically or even mentally..that’s why i felt it also to be somewhat similar to the thought behind rapes..

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  16. davekingsbury
    September 16, 2016 at 2:51 am

    Is it not the idea of possession that is the real problem?

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  17. Akhila
    September 15, 2016 at 9:47 pm

    Romance is divine..but what if it is not at the right path

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  18. bhaatdal
    September 15, 2016 at 9:23 pm

    I don’t know where to rate the emotions .. Love can happen anywhere anytime but it is also unfaithfulness and greed as love is not always having it is giving as well. Nice thought much appreciated

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  20. girlandworld
    September 15, 2016 at 7:57 pm

    No words to describe how I felt reading ur post… Kudos

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  21. Shivangi
    September 15, 2016 at 7:42 pm

    Another nice question you raised Akhila. Rape and love are two different things, one leads to hell and the other makes you feel in heaven. But if one happens to be wanting an adulterous relationship, it will be sinful because there would be so many innocent people (spouse, kids etc) who would be hurt. Love is always noble and one should not commit adultery in love. It defiles this noble emotion, which thrives on giving!

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  22. 187puneet
    September 15, 2016 at 6:46 pm

    Loving someone is different and owning is way different. A thought provoking post.

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  23. prashantt
    September 15, 2016 at 2:54 pm

    Its ill mentality & nobody can own anyone and certainly its not love its damn bad sin..love is to see your loved ones,it never seeks thought of owning anything….
    aah! you always came with strange topics of society!

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  24. Mick Canning
    September 15, 2016 at 1:32 pm

    All emotions, unfortunately, become harmful when they get out of control.

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  25. boundlessblessingsblog
    September 15, 2016 at 12:16 pm

    Nicely worded Akhila though we all need to be aware of what is happening everywhere.

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  26. myheartbeats4ublog
    September 15, 2016 at 11:57 am

    interesting one, ma’am akhila…forbidden love!!

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  27. Bikramjit
    September 15, 2016 at 11:48 am

    It’s the mentality..

    Although as varsh says above it surely is not love.. and if it was love then I think both made a mistake there..

    I had a long discussion with someone ..why would someone want to rape another human being.. It is such a sad world we live.

    And law for sure is not helping ..

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  28. shreyathewriter
    September 15, 2016 at 11:35 am

    It happens everywhere. You know the chemicals within us r causing it.

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  29. Varsh
    September 15, 2016 at 10:23 am

    Good morning Akhila!
    How can it be same for rapists? I doubt if love features there. People can own cattle…not human beings.

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  30. Gagan khaira
    September 15, 2016 at 9:53 am

    Sick minds that think they can own anybody.

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  31. Josh
    September 15, 2016 at 9:15 am

    And to an extend, its all the mind games of a depressed mind, caused by the oppressed social norms.

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  32. Josh
    September 15, 2016 at 9:12 am

    Nobody can own anybody!

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