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Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed. ― Albert Einstein

Hmm.. Was this statement made by Einstein…from physics to psychology? well, I am not quite sure.

Anyway you have something to say on this quote, no ; )

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  3. thewritewomanblog Avatar
    thewritewomanblog

    Really, Einstein said that? Not all the theorems and equations of physics can describe the complexities of married life!
    What say, Akhi?

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ha ha.. might be some manipulated quotes.. I don’t think that he might have said it..😉

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      1. thewritewomanblog Avatar
        thewritewomanblog

        Ha Ha! I think so too!

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  4. andysmerdon Avatar
    andysmerdon

    I think Albert should have stuck to Physics – he was good at that 😉

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ha ha.. So you are not agreeing to his psychological aspects

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      1. andysmerdon Avatar
        andysmerdon

        Not completely 😉

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          I appreciate that..☺️☺️

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  5. prashantt Avatar
    prashantt

    Haha..lol! I need to check whether the statement was made by Einstein though i am inexperienced & unmarried but certainly i observed no matter men/women changes or not but thier lives definately yes…😜😜

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      The poor Einstein… he is not knowing what’s going here😉

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      1. prashantt Avatar
        prashantt

        Haahaa…..better he is not here😂😂

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  6. mathias sager Avatar
    mathias sager

    It can also be the other way round. Still results in mutual disappointment.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Why do we wanna change others.. why can’t we accept them as they are.. when we try to attach them with ourselves what’s the benefit if some of their parts are lost..

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      1. mathias sager Avatar
        mathias sager

        Yeah, good question and I agree with your wish / openness for diversity. However, it may have to do with fear from what is different. If we are confronted with difference and don’t want to change ourselves, we may feel rejected and consequently insecure and threatened. That’s why people prefer others to be self-confirming. That’s one view, but there may be many other reasons too, depending on situations:-) All the best!

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          It’s like we are only responsible for our changes, no one else have the right to change us for their comfort

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          1. mathias sager Avatar
            mathias sager

            Absolutely!!! Requires strength though to not adapt to others’ wishes when seeking their friendship for example. Maybe that’s a good definition of real friends: they take us as we are:-) Cheers!

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              True, if we need to think twice before telling something to our friends, how can they be our true friends…

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  7. Shreya Sharma Avatar
    Shreya Sharma

    Nobody ever changes. 😁

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      And don’t expect the other to be changed

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  8. 2ndhalfolife Avatar
    2ndhalfolife

    We can only change if WE want to not if someone else wants us to…

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Yes, no one else can repair the messed up mind.. we only can..

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  9. Puneet Avatar
    Puneet

    Hahaha…. I don’t know what to say.. 😂😂😂 only a married person would be able to answer.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      You can. Einstein was married two times. Doesn’t imply that only doubly married people can have a say on this..😜

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  10. sudershana Avatar
    sudershana

    Haha, expecting to change it means keeping a condition to spend the rest of life. It must be a choice not a contract, isn’t it?

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ah, when it be comes a contract things are spoiled..

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      1. sudershana Avatar
        sudershana

        Absolutely

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  11. bisimodupe1975 Avatar
    bisimodupe1975

    A quote so true.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks bisim

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  12. Tikeetha T Avatar
    Tikeetha T

    LOL. Truth. I did that in my first marriage.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Then, good that you are happy now..

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  13. Mann Avatar
    Mann

    Dont expect…just be yourself.;)

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ha ha.. so far so good😘

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  14. Confused Thoughts Avatar
    Confused Thoughts

    Albert Einstein may said so if
    “Young girl and boy can’t be only friends ” is given by Shakespeare 😂😂😂

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ha ha.. counter point.. 👍

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      1. Confused Thoughts Avatar
        Confused Thoughts

        😁

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  15. Nadine Avatar
    Nadine

    Sadly this is true in many cases. Only a fool marries thinking they can change someone that’s why couples should really get to know each other before marriage

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks for your views.. but even there are couples who live happily, they came to know each other only after marriage or engagement

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  16. Simon Avatar
    Simon

    Its kind of how life disappoints… We expect too much 😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Life is beautiful.isnt it.. how can we be disappointed…as you said, maybe due to too much of expectations

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      1. Simon Avatar
        Simon

        It is too much expectation i think! 😊

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  17. kawsreflections Avatar
    kawsreflections

    Beautiful.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks

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      1. kawsreflections Avatar
        kawsreflections

        You’re welcome.

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  18. Prajakta Avatar
    Prajakta

    I am not sure if he was experienced enough to make this quote! History doesn’t look too kindly on his personal life.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      True, even I am not sure..maybe someone’s game..

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  19. extinct0703 Avatar
    extinct0703

    By Einstein or not but a very appropriate statement made.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      How can you say it so confidently

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      1. extinct0703 Avatar
        extinct0703

        Experience

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          😇

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  20. novelistbaba Avatar
    novelistbaba

    i guess, if it’s written on the internet so it must be true………….as for the proof…….i would have to step into disappointment myself, wait a few year i will get back to you…… 🙂 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ha ha.. so get back once you get into that..between how long it should take approximately

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      1. novelistbaba Avatar
        novelistbaba

        i think 5 year plan is minimum…….. 😀

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          🤣🤣

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  21. mobilefriendly2017 Avatar
    mobilefriendly2017

    Very much interesting post ! Uniqueness of this post give me a idea for my upcoming post ! Thanks for sharing this & keep sharing such interesting post !

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks a lot.. but why do you think it to be unique 😇

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      1. mobilefriendly2017 Avatar
        mobilefriendly2017

        Bcoz of your minute observation of physics going towards psychology !

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Oh.. 😊 thank you so much.. glad that you noticed it

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  22. Beparvah !! Avatar
    Beparvah !!

    These differences and fights actually complete their relationship…love overpowers these differences I presume… and this quote is too good because it is very true…. even I have read it somewhere… Einstein’s work on psychology is very well known !!

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Do you really think that it was written by him…

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      1. Beparvah !! Avatar
        Beparvah !!

        I have to check it … but I have heard about this aspect of him… in fact even read somewhere some articles describing about this angle of this genius !!

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Is it.. I never thought such a psychology aspect from him..

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          1. Beparvah !! Avatar
            Beparvah !!

            Even Chomsky has been carrying a lot of vibrant aspects … they have actually invested something to themselves… and we all are getting benefited from their investments

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              Ya..the father of modern linguistics…

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              1. Beparvah !! Avatar
                Beparvah !!

                Exactly.. !!

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