She is not a toy for men’s pleasure. Everywhere we see protest going on against female trading. Yes, many a times, she is trapped into prostitution.
Even then, there is another side for this objectification. She herself accounts herself as an object for his satisfaction. She is treating herself as a sex object. She is stereotyped to live in that way. And rarely does she understand her own mind-trap. It’s all about interpretation.
So Girls, wake up and most importantly awaken your sisters.
You know jacque, even while we blame on these patriarchal system, there is one thing which is easily ignored.. that’s her attitude towards the issue. Many a times she is only objectifying herself, treating herself as a sex object, and its not the man to be blamed for that. And yes, she was tuned to live in that way and now it requires immense pressure to make her understand the real scenario..
Reblogged this on femininematerz and commented:
This post by Akhila really caught my attention. Girls, women, sisters, ladies you are not an object, you are a human being with purpose. You are not a sex object to live only to satisfy men… You are much more.
Thank you so much bisim.. We have to support our sisters,let her realize the fact
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This post has got a lot of attention and definitely a lot of opinions. I think it is a little more than just culture or education. I think that for a society to function, a man and a woman should align themselves and their rights in harmony as one cannot live without the other. Education and awareness is the key but respecting one self is equally important. Respecting yourself as much as you respect one another will create the right balance, a full- fledged war on proving one sex better than the other is only going to cause more anger that further brings up a very confused generation of people.
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Sharing these lings of Pakistani Poet “Sara Shagufta” here with you all :
औरत का बदन ही उसका वतन नहीं होता, वह कुछ और भी है !
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पौरुष का परचम लिए घूमने वालों, औरत जमीन नहीं कुछ और भी है..!!
Woman’s body is not her only homeland, She is something else too..
TO all, who are waving the flag of Manhood everywhere, the woman is not a land or property only, She means something else too.. !!
It’s a result of cultural conditioning. Women have fallen victim for patriarchy for many years. Glorification of motherhood was also a big ploy of the patriarchal society. To be honest many women are not ready to break the cages and free their mind. Getting married at a particular age and if someone doesn’t making her look like a failure and breaking her confidence is also a way of the patriarchal society to oppress women. women have to understand fact she can offer much more than her body. Having said that , there are lot of women who are gold diggers … If you know what I mean ..
Sorry it is the result of modern society !
I don’t want any debate so I am not gonna taking any mess but every question have perfect answer
So please don’t blame our culture .
Culture don’t say to any man go and use the women atleast Hinduism does not have any lession like this
So please don’t distract the topic .
I am so sorry I can’t help it cz I am outspoken and little bit weird
Oh what’s sati ? Breast tax ?? Child marriage isn’t that Hinduism too 😂 especially the epics Ramayan Mahabharata talk very highly of women like kidnapping a woman .. abandoning a pregnant woman . Stealing clothes of women and using them as a bait in the game of dice 😂😂😂 Hinduism is great 😂😂😂
I am sorry !
You should stop writing about hinduism now it’s my heartly request !
Cz I don’t want any debate it will be messy if I give the answers
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Cz I can predict the mental level of everyone by their words and you respresented it nicely
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Right way !
If you were talking about sati ?
Please tell me have you ever read any Purana or granth
If you read then show me in which Purana , sati Paratha is mentioned
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Yes I read that not means history is Hinduism , which event you have discussed was just bad memory but you also know what was the end of that bad event
Ravan was killed and in Mahabharata pandava killed the all kauravs
Also bhim took out the blood of that person who tried to touch the draupadi .
But why you will care about them
Cz you wanted to do sarcasm
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But what about the man who would abuse his wife and treat her as an object ? What of the man who abandoned his wife ? If Ravan was bad how could sita be called as chaste woman ? If sita is chaste why call Ravan bad ? What of the man who indulged in violence against a woman for just proposing him ?
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Do you think Mahabharata and Ramayana is the base of hinduism , I think you don’t know Hinduism is thousands of year old than the period of Ramayana
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What’s the base of Hinduism ?? Manu Dharma ?? 😂
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Who said to you ?
You still have not answered
Have you ever read any Purana !
After make any sarcasm
I know you have lot of problems with word Hinduism but all will be cleared if you read atleast 10-20 pages of any Purana
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Everyone has their own opinions. it’s one’s call to take it seriously or not.. it doesnt actually imply that the other side was wrong.. Interpretations varies while the ultimate intention is not to treat her as an object.
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And you are absolutely free to express your views..no offense and so need to apologize and all.. 🙂
cool..
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it’s again your call..
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😦 An incident of my life… 😦
TO EVERYONE,
Not only uneducated girl , educated girls also use this way to get easy money…
and sometimes their situation force them to do so and they start loving this life not caring about their image in the society. They don’t damn care about anyone!!!
Much experienced about this thing
Ya ..in a way she is trapped
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I am sorry ! I was just reading all comments , I noticed you have used the word uneducated , orphan girl
Sorry but I experienced in real life most of well educated and modern society girl are involved because of their high life style and in Delhi NCR call girl service providers are running their services with the help of them .
Topic is so wide so I would like to say awareness should be first priority
Yes I agree that awareness should be the first priority. We can understand about uneducated and orphan girls,but why educated girls are involved I don’t know. Maybe because of addictions or maybe for money.
I think they all are aware of their shameful act, but their addictions drag them there.
Ya… Make oneself assured
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True..most girls are trapped into a flesh trading world.. And sadly end up, haunted by thought of objectification
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Objectification is more complicated that this! it requires a series of conversation. you should have been there when we were making fun of being a misogynist last night and how every phrase and act we do, can be misogynistic and objectification, and how it is that natural!
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words and notion 
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