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The comfort while being with strangers

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There is some comfort while being with strangers. Have you experienced that?

You don’t have to open your inner self in front of them. So no worries on your hidden thoughts being stolen.

There is no obligations, no love. Only thing you need to ensure is to keep a safe distance. 😉

97 responses to “The comfort while being with strangers”

  1. doodlessworld Avatar
    doodlessworld

    I wanted to write a similar post 😉

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Is it..go ahead..

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      1. doodlessworld Avatar
        doodlessworld

        I will for sure soon 😉

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          👍

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    2. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Btwn let me know that special stranger..😉😉

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      1. doodlessworld Avatar
        doodlessworld

        Oh. Stop pulling my leg :p 😉

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          😂😂😂😂

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        2. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          😎 something is hidden..mmmm….

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          1. doodlessworld Avatar
            doodlessworld

            😀 mmmmm. :p

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              Between may i know your name…

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              1. doodlessworld Avatar
                doodlessworld

                Yes for sure.
                akriti 🙂

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                1. Akhila Avatar
                  Akhila

                  Akriti…what does that mean

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                  1. doodlessworld Avatar
                    doodlessworld

                    Shape of something
                    आकार hindi mein.

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                    1. Akhila Avatar
                      Akhila

                      Ya, actually i thought the same as it’s same in malayalam

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                    2. doodlessworld Avatar
                      doodlessworld

                      Are you christian?

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                    3. Akhila Avatar
                      Akhila

                      Hindu by birth…why..

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                    4. doodlessworld Avatar
                      doodlessworld

                      You know malyalam that’s why.
                      then you maybe south indian?

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                    5. Akhila Avatar
                      Akhila

                      Yes, i am a malayalee, from God’s own country. Where are you from akriti

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                    6. doodlessworld Avatar
                      doodlessworld

                      Rajasthan 🙂

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                    7. Akhila Avatar
                      Akhila

                      Oh..okay…

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  2. Maniparna Sengupta Majumder Avatar
    Maniparna Sengupta Majumder

    Yes, I often have felt this. You can be carefree with strangers (albeit keeping the said distance) because you can absolutely be on your own without any pretension…

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Glad that you also join the safe distance measurement 😂

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      1. Maniparna Sengupta Majumder Avatar
        Maniparna Sengupta Majumder

        That’s important too… 😀

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  3. Jai Choudhary Avatar
    Jai Choudhary

    nice !

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thank jai

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      1. Jai Choudhary Avatar
        Jai Choudhary

        Welcome 🙂

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  4. Tuesday Tales : Strange Philosophy – pins & ashes Avatar
    Tuesday Tales : Strange Philosophy – pins & ashes

    […] to being not a stranger anymore? In some cases there isn’t a choice at all. 😂 poor Akhila,  I gatecrashed into her real life like that, but with a few others they walked right into […]

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  5. Ben Aqiba Avatar
    Ben Aqiba

    This is so true.And the reason we don’t care what the stranger will think about us.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Exactly…not much bothered

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  6. pins & ashes Avatar
    pins & ashes

    Enthanavo udhesham?

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Who knows it better than you.. the way you entered my home…

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      1. pins & ashes Avatar
        pins & ashes

        Hahaha! Athe. House maathrum. Into heart also alle 😁😎

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Yes my dear…😘

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          1. pins & ashes Avatar
            pins & ashes

            Haha! At some point we are all strangers, then there is a confort level and some other bond comes in

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  7. Meenakshi Sethi Avatar
    Meenakshi Sethi

    I know this is blissful but with me problem is every steanger if I talk with more than half an hour almost ends in a new found friend and then we can’t renain stranger! How strange! 😍

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    1. pins & ashes Avatar
      pins & ashes

      Ditto. Not a friend but then there is a communication.

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    2. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ha ha…that’s so nice, no….

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      1. Meenakshi Sethi Avatar
        Meenakshi Sethi

        Actually 😍

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          😘😘😘

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  8. Shreya Sharma Avatar
    Shreya Sharma

    That’s why I make more online friends. 😂😍

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ya ya…that’s the point shre

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      1. Shreya Sharma Avatar
        Shreya Sharma

        Haha 😎

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  9. Akhila Avatar
    Akhila

    Hmm..good question..thumbs up ..but miles to go before i reach that state

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  10. andysmerdon Avatar
    andysmerdon

    I have always felt more comfortable reading my poetry to complete strangers – friends and family know me too well. 😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      It’s good..👍👍

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  11. Ratika Bhardwaj Avatar
    Ratika Bhardwaj

    this is so well noticed by you 😀 I agree with u

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thank you ratika. Have a great sunday..

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      1. Ratika Bhardwaj Avatar
        Ratika Bhardwaj

        welcome 🙂 I wish the same to u 🙂

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  12. nomadwrites Avatar
    nomadwrites

    I chatter away with strangers. Few being the best conversations 🙂 I am here just writing in about the solitude, solo travel and I see this. For a moment, I thought you had written for same 😀 Cheers!

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Hey..good that we thought in he same lines…did you post yours..

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      1. nomadwrites Avatar
        nomadwrites

        Hey. Yup. Just few hours back. On solitude 🙂

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Will catch you soon

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        2. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Just read it. Infact one of my friends were asking me in the same lines, solo trips.. Your article really inspires…
          Bwn, seems comments are disabled in your posts..

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          1. nomadwrites Avatar
            nomadwrites

            Oh, others are able to comment. It is open for WordPress or otherwise too. I will check that 🙂 Thank you so much for the kind words!!

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              Have a look..i can see only like button, not any comment boxes

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              1. nomadwrites Avatar
                nomadwrites

                That’s odd 😦 I just checked on web. It does show 20+comments with the comment box below. Will try to look at it 🙂

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                1. Akhila Avatar
                  Akhila

                  Oh..wonder why it’s not appearing in my reader

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  13. gserpent Avatar
    gserpent

    I can always tell how authentic or fake someone is by the way they act in front of strangers. If they are truly authentic, they will act the same way to strangers as they do to people they know. If they are an inauthentic self or fake like most of the world, they will put an act on in front of strangers. Being comfortable in front of strangers tells me you are authentic. 😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      I don’t claim that i am being authentic in front of strangers.😉 but yes, at times there is some comfort

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  14. Alfaazon ki udaan Avatar
    Alfaazon ki udaan

    Very true…and one speak their heart out without any fear…safe distance and awareness is must while handling strangers😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Glad that we are in the same boat…😊😊

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  15. Prajakta Avatar
    Prajakta

    Have always had the best conversations with strangers 🙂 I totally get it

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      That’s so nice of you prajakta.. Keep up the spirit😊

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  16. Simon Avatar
    Simon

    I don’t normally feel great with strangers. But i see what you mean ☺

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      I like what you stated, appreciates your frank attitude👍

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      1. Simon Avatar
        Simon

        Its just how i am i guess… I’m often shy and not confident. ☺

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          We are all one of a kind…so you too..😀

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          1. Simon Avatar
            Simon

            So are you… YouTube been very friendly to me ☺

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  17. kawsreflections Avatar
    kawsreflections

    I love it. It’s beautiful. It’s very true.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thank you very much

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      1. kawsreflections Avatar
        kawsreflections

        You’re welcome.

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  18. Reflection of Observer Avatar
    Reflection of Observer

    I experienced many times, when I was travelling.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      True..it happen with travels

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  19. Kiran Goswami Avatar
    Kiran Goswami

    That’s absolutely true.. We dont have to care what the other person will think Bcz we aren’t even if we’ll meet again..

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Exactly that’s it kiran.. If we meet or not, we dont even both that..

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  20. Pradita Kapahi Avatar
    Pradita Kapahi

    True true true…. Also, amazingly, you can be yourself with them coz you don’t have the fear of losing them.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Yess.. No need of any fake impressions

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  21. extinct0703 Avatar
    extinct0703

    So appropriate.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thank you dhiraj

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  22. kiranmag Avatar
    kiranmag

    I have experienced it mostly when a travel 😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ya…we meet strangers a lot especially in travels

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  23. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar
    boundlessblessingsblog

    Great and true Akhila but even why keep safe distance no one in this world is bad it is our perception so it is k to talk to a stranger if he or she approaches and simply move on. Loved what u said that u can open up to them cause what will they want from us. 👍👍👍👍👍👍

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    1. sparklingpoems Avatar
      sparklingpoems

      I agree with your thought. It is our perception.
      And for thoughts, why stranger not even our friend can steal our inner thoughts.
      Sometimes we are comfortable, sometimes not. Depends on the situation, I think….

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      1. Akhila Avatar
        Akhila

        True..there is dependency..but after all it’s once own comfort that matters..

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        1. sparklingpoems Avatar
          sparklingpoems

          Yes…

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    2. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks a lot for your different views. Maybe it might take little more time for me to skip the safe distance 😉

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar
        boundlessblessingsblog

        There is nothing different only that if we keep faith and speak to anyone and see that person too in a different way things r better and sometimes why think also like that. It’s k don’t worry just relax and enjoy life nothing will happen. Have a great Sunday.

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          😍😍

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          1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar
            boundlessblessingsblog

            😊😊😊😊😊

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  24. theonlysup Avatar
    theonlysup

    Correct. No obligations..

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ya…just meet and let go

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  25. aishahnaaz Avatar
    aishahnaaz

    Well said! This is what I love about solo escapades. ! I’ll be me, I don’t have to worry about what they might think.. and there’s is someone looking to the screen while I’m typing this down sitting in a train . 😂

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Lol….so are comfortable with that someone in train

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      1. aishahnaaz Avatar
        aishahnaaz

        Haha. Yeah!! Weird no?

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Lol…so how was your journey…

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          1. aishahnaaz Avatar
            aishahnaaz

            Hectic. But since it was the way home, it was okay. 😀

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              😊😉😉

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