Take a step back and laugh at yourself

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It was a nice blunder. But I had no work around other than informing the concerned person. I had that habit of thinking over it and stressing myself earlier. But this time, I felt it better. Why things should be taken too seriously as someone says in lost art..?

This time, I felt no jumpiness in my stomach. Anyway, I was quite sure that no one else would be affected other than myself, if something bad happens. So this time, I was able to manage the pressure. There is no right or wrong way to live life, so why should I be worried. After all it’s all my priority and comfort that matters.

I expected a clean bowled after that blunder. But to my wonder, everything was back to normal next day morning with a reassuring mail from the concerned person.

Take a step back and laugh at yourself on your blunders and get rid of the worries.

91 responses to “Take a step back and laugh at yourself”

  1. Answer lies in your interpretations - Words and Notion Avatar

    […] Cherish every moments of life and Take a step back and laugh at yourself […]

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    […] Cherish every moments of life and Take a step back and laugh at yourself […]

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  3. thewritewomanblog Avatar

    Fretting is after all not going to solve your problem! Good one, Akhi!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Hmm….why so serious as someone says

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  4. novelistbaba Avatar
    novelistbaba

    so true……i always worry too much when other people are involved…….when its just me……who cares……i make fun of my habit….laugh….but that seems to encourage that habit……. 🙂 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Lol…just keep on

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      1. novelistbaba Avatar
        novelistbaba

        😀 😀

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  5. Shreya Sharma Avatar

    And this one solaced me that day. 😇😊
    Though it’s not easy to laugh on our own blunder that means a lot in your life.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Read that post linked with mine

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  6. Varsh Avatar

    We are only human, and mistakes/blunders prove that. Else we would be programmed machines incapable of thinking and following orders, isn’t it?

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Hmm…and those machines are incapable to laugh when it fails😂

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  7. evanaweb Avatar
    evanaweb

    This is exactly what I needed to hear.. 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Is it..i am glad with your words..so are you all set to laugh at yourself?😉

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      1. evanaweb Avatar
        evanaweb

        Almost I believe I am… Are you 😛

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Me..trying 😉

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  8. Masoom Jethwa Avatar

    I always laugh out loud like mental manadhil. 😉

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ha ha….😂😂 that’s your secret…hmmmm

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      1. Masoom Jethwa Avatar

        Secret is secret again. 😀

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  9. Fab Writings Avatar

    I love laughing when I do such stupidity!
    😂😂
    Great post and greater thought!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Harsh, need not be stupidities always..it could be the loss of something which you were long awaiting…and even then, if we are able to laugh, life becomes smoother

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      1. Fab Writings Avatar

        You’re right Di! 😊😊
        Have a great day! 😊

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  10. lamarrwenrich Avatar

    Love your wise words 😀

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thank you so much☺

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      1. lamarrwenrich Avatar

        Welcome 💕💕💕💕💕

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  11. vishal4u Avatar

    Everyone today was to a friend or infant enjoy the company of someone who has great sense of humor, we all enjoy time with such people, but we never realize that even we can be like them, all we have to do is laugh on our self.
    So set aside our hollow ego and pride and for once say goodbye to all serious stuff and just laugh on our own foolishness like a adolescent child.
    Lovely post 👌👌👌😉😉😊😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      You are absolutely right vishal..let go of those serious thoughts..

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      1. vishal4u Avatar

        Yeah it is the right thing to do and we all know that, but still it is the most difficult one to do for me. I just can’t stop myself being serious about my life. 🙁🙁😑😑🙃

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Hmm…we all are..infact that’s what we are hearing since childhood, ” be serious “

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  12. my valiant soul Avatar
    my valiant soul

    Couldn’t agree more.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks dear

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  13. Kishan Thakar Avatar

    moving on is the key

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yes..in way it’s correct..laugh or cry, just move on

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  14. kawsreflections Avatar

    Very good!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thank you

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      1. kawsreflections Avatar

        You’re welcome!

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  15. Prajakta Avatar
    Prajakta

    true….. often we over-think.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yaa…over think and finally ends nowhere

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  16. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

    Yes and but that is how today people have become, all have got so scared and the writer is so true by saying that if Snow White and his prince were here at this time we all would be making a big hue and cry.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ya..everything is given a serious impression..we often forget to take things on a lighter side

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

        Yes dear how r u all good.😊😊😊😊

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          😊 everything very much fine…

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          1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

            Great

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  17. Ashish kumar Avatar

    Yes that’s correct… Profound read… Liked it… 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks ashish..what’s your say on this…do you step back and laugh at yourself

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      1. Ashish kumar Avatar

        I cannot say that i always laugh but it also depends on the seriousness of the issues. Some times i simply let it go. And i also don’t hesitate to ask for forgiveness if i have done sonething wrong. I have laughed on my mistakes several times but frankly speaking not always as sometimes you have to deal accordingly.

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Ya..i can understand..it needs an extra sense to laugh at our own mistakes always…i am also trying only

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          1. Ashish kumar Avatar

            Oh. Thats good but don’t do that always, better to have a balance. 🙂

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              Yes..👍

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  18. SumitOfficial Avatar

    This is so inspiring. Even I agree on this. I do a few things which according to people might not be right, but it gives me satisfaction so I do it. It’s always about priority and our comfort. 😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yes, obviously it’s our own priority and comfort…and let me know your reaction on finally realizing it to be blunder

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      1. SumitOfficial Avatar

        Definitely Akhila 😁😄😘😊

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          So how’s your new work life

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          1. Akhila Avatar

            Oh..is it.. Actually it was wonder for me when you took that job as you always wanted to be an entrepreneur

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              👍👍 so live with your passion and comfort

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  19. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

    Y s and laugh out loud. Great advice Akhila one that needs to looked into carefully. 👍👍👍👍

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      It’s not my advice..it’s what someone says..have you checked that link i added

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

        Yes but u kept it and yes I checked that link. Great words though.

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  21. MayankSen Avatar

    Laughing at ourselves and our mistakes is the best therapy indeed..👌🏻

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ya..why should we take everything so seriously as said by arrowwrites…have fun..and enjoy life

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  22. kiranmag Avatar

    That’s a wonderful advice dear Akhila 😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks kiran…

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  23. prashantt Avatar
    prashantt

    There is a very deep meaning resides in this…it needs a lot of courage to laugh on yourself & if you did so..can do anything in this world.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      I am trying only…experimental stage😂😂

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  24. Fairy Kumar Avatar

    Amazing! Actually it’s the best way one can go for in those “Special Situations”!!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks faory..what about you…can you easily adapt to that best way whenever you have that jumpiness in stomach

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      1. Fairy Kumar Avatar

        Umm… I try my best to follow that way😊 but sometimes it’s very difficult!

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Ya..definitely it’s difficult..me too trying ..

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          1. Fairy Kumar Avatar

            Efforts must go on✌

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              Let us see

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              1. Fairy Kumar Avatar

                😊

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  25. Martian Avatar
    Martian

    treue

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    1. Martian Avatar
      Martian

      true*

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      1. Akhila Avatar

        Thank you ☺

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  26. samisportsupdatesindia31 Avatar
    samisportsupdatesindia31

    Very nice brother keep it up,god gives u more happiness in ur life, http://samisportsupdatesindia31.wordpress.com

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks brother for being here.

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      1. SumitOfficial Avatar

        Did he just say brother. 😂
        And your sarcastic comment.😍😋😊😂

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Ha ha..sumit..you got it😂😂

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          1. SumitOfficial Avatar

            😅😅😅😂

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  27. radhikasreflection Avatar

    Very few people can laugh at themselves, and those who are able to do that are a happy lot😉😁

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ya..it needs that less critic mind.. We always try to criticize ourselves, like mind says us, you did it bad, you could have done in a better way. And very few only have that sense of humour to enjoy the fun in their deeds

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  28. pins & ashes Avatar

    laughs are the best! laughing at yourself is the bestie best 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      I know you are the best in doing that….😂😂

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      1. pins & ashes Avatar

        hheheehehee! 😀 😀

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  29. Harlon Avatar

    What a great post and such wise advice. I certainly feel that life has become too serious and my best memories were always moments of laughter, so why not start by taking back, as you say, and laugh at myself. I forgot how funny I can be – funny acting, not funny looking 🙂
    Peace, Harlon

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks harlon. As you said, we will cherish those fun moments only on a long run. Life is too short to be nervous all time…why should we waste it, spoiling all the fun moments…

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  30. ssunshine14 Avatar

    You know, I do that a lot 😃😃
    Once I literally collapsed while walking and I started laughing before anyone could 😃😃😃
    It’s okay to be clumsy, imperfectly beautiful 😘😘😘

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      So did you notice someone behind you, finding your collapse…😜.

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      1. ssunshine14 Avatar

        Yes, my entire family hehehe
        They still laugh, me being the loudest hehehe

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          Lol..😉😉

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          1. ssunshine14 Avatar

            hehe

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