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He loves me, he loves me not  – The thrill of uncertainties

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Certain or uncertain..?

Uncertainties are always accompanied with so many ups and downs.  And no one will love to have a life full of uncertainties.

But if everything are certain, what thrill can appear in life? If life is going on just as expected, won’t it be too boring?

So there is something stimulating us in those uncertainties, like “He loves me, he loves me not” scenario. The thrill of anticipation drives us even if the end results are not much appreciable.

Appreciate uncertainty as it comes up with opportunities and makes life thrilling

113 responses to “He loves me, he loves me not  – The thrill of uncertainties”

  1. galeweithers Avatar
    galeweithers

    I so agree with this post and believe that it’s getting through to the end without dying which can motivate us as well – see what I mean here: https://goo.gl/K6IYSv – but in the meantime, thanks for your great words!

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks a lot…will check your link…

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  2. Meenakshi Sethi Avatar
    Meenakshi Sethi

    Agree on that…uncetainties gives a good exercise to heart and other senses as they bring excitement and free our life from being stagnant and boring.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Exactly…let us have varieties and uncertainties….

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  3. Beparvah !! Avatar
    Beparvah !!

    In this journey I understood that love is not uncertain of you don’t have any pre conditions.. whether she loves me or not doesn’t stop me from loving her.. because it’s a divine feeling… 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thumbs on your mindset..god bless you chandrajit

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      1. Beparvah !! Avatar
        Beparvah !!

        Thank you so very much.. I think it’s because of the love that I understood and carried for her.. Her name will always be in my heart.. and soul.. she gave me this mindset after severing all connections for me.. I hope she is fine wherever she is.. my constant prayers for her helps me to survive all this pain.. !! May be someday god will listen and she will realise this someday and may come back.. 🙂

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Yaa..i too wish if she came back

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          1. Beparvah !! Avatar
            Beparvah !!

            Thank you.. I believe prayers will help.. 🙂 I felt her strength while surviving in the dense forest still in Manipur..

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              Dense forest training..😇😇

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              1. Beparvah !! Avatar
                Beparvah !!

                That drill was memorable as it became quite scary when we suddenly saw those Naga rebels with best of their weapons… we were standstill for more than 15mins… so that we can escape their notice..

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                1. Akhila Avatar
                  Akhila

                  oh my god.. terrific..

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                  1. Beparvah !! Avatar
                    Beparvah !!

                    I felt the silence of death… !!

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  4. shifafawaz Avatar
    shifafawaz

    Akhila! You always write about something I ponder about! Just few days back I was discussing with a friend about how life would be if we know our future already and concluded that it would be boring and it is this uncertainty of life that makes it interesting and what motivates us in life!
    Great post ♥

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks shifa..maybe i was that friend with whom you were discussing 😜
      Jokes apart, these are our common thoughts, no….i just put it into words

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      1. shifafawaz Avatar
        shifafawaz

        Hahaha..!! =D Yes..telepathy 😉
        True…common things that we tend to ignore and not think about…

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  5. Simply-Me Avatar
    Simply-Me

    Lovely post Akhila, uncertainties allows us to venture out more and even discover ourselves.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thank you..yes, i agree with you that it helps us know our inner power

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      1. Simply-Me Avatar
        Simply-Me

        My pleasure and indeed it does.

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  6. quotesandmore (Chitra) Avatar
    quotesandmore (Chitra)

    Love this post Akhila, I see you have given a positive way to deal with uncertainties.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks Chitra…you said it…can you enjoy that positivity of uncertainties?

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      1. quotesandmore (Chitra) Avatar
        quotesandmore (Chitra)

        I have!! Its was like riding a roller coaster ride blond folded with the chills and thrills!!

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  7. SumitOfficial Avatar
    SumitOfficial

    Yes. At times we get what is needed and not what we have asked for. Great post Akhila. 😊😉

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks sumit..that’s the beauty of life…pleasure of suspense

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  8. Hemangini Avatar
    Hemangini

    I am in an uncertain phase of my life right now, confusion is at its highest and I am happy… I can’t believe it you know? hehe this is a wonderful post. 😀 Thanks…

    Have a wonderful night Akhila. Sleep tight.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      So did i steal your emotions hema..😜

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      1. Hemangini Avatar
        Hemangini

        hehehe maybe we are going through something similar just a tiny bit different? 😉

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Ha ha…ya…i am trying to love some uncertainties

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          1. Hemangini Avatar
            Hemangini

            🙂 I think uncertainties give birth to new opportunities. So all the best sweetheart 🙂

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              Thanks dear

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  9. Polly White Avatar
    Polly White

    Our situation can lead to uncertainty. However, our faith can make us certain. My new adult novel warns of gangs and their negative influence on students. ‘What If I Go?’ is out 31st January and empowers women. Check out the realistic story. Download soon via publisher, Solstice in US. http://solsticepublishing.com/
    Thanks!

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  10. cote8050 Avatar
    cote8050

    the unknown does hold some excitement and attraction but when it comes to does he love me or not, I would like to know for sure… 🙂 nice writing and thanks for giving us something to think about. Michelle

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks michelle..
      Ha ha..hope there is no uncertainties in your love

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      1. cote8050 Avatar
        cote8050

        Unfortunately uncertainty is all I have from the man I love ,,, 😦

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Oh…i didn’t expect that…

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  11. 2ndhalfolife Avatar
    2ndhalfolife

    The question has been put: would you want to know just when you were going to die? Would you live life more fully? Or is it best to have it unknown? It could be scary to know….

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Yes..it is best if unknown..but another question haunts me..if we have to die, why we take birth

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      1. 2ndhalfolife Avatar
        2ndhalfolife

        Maybe the two are parts of the same organism really and you just can’t have one without the other. Like light and dark; it’s the parts of a thing that make it whole?

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    2. cote8050 Avatar
      cote8050

      I agree, it would be scary and I know i would totally focus on the when and wonder about the how and not enjoy what time I have left. For me, ignorance is bliss in this situation…

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      1. 2ndhalfolife Avatar
        2ndhalfolife

        I think I agree!

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  12. Masoom Jethwa Avatar
    Masoom Jethwa

    What you use for graphic of blog ?

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Graphic…😇😇 you mean the images..? I just work with PowerPoint for images..nothing else.

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      1. Masoom Jethwa Avatar
        Masoom Jethwa

        Fine 🙂

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Is it too bad😇

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  13. Joker Shayar Avatar
    Joker Shayar

    I can relate with it my way 😋… When i go to my neighbour’s house and notice that their dog is unchained and here we go, he will bite me, he will not bite me 😝😝 lol
    Happy new year to you and your loved ones from bunny 😁😁

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ohh my god…you connected it with a dog bite😛😛😛

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      1. Joker Shayar Avatar
        Joker Shayar

        Haha i had to, because there is no uncertainty about she loves me or not 😀.. she does for sure 😍.. the uncertainty isonly that will she say it or not 😎 😛

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Lol….let us make her tell it…

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          1. Joker Shayar Avatar
            Joker Shayar

            nope, let us give her the time she need :P.

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              Oh..in that way…😉😉

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              1. Joker Shayar Avatar
                Joker Shayar

                hehe yo 😛

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  14. Mr.Lonely Avatar
    Mr.Lonely

    In my personal opinion..
    Love is nothing but a feeling of self confidence and confort between individuals☺

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      ☺

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  15. PriyaPandian Avatar
    PriyaPandian

    Well said Akhila. Nice post:-)

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thank you priya..☺

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  16. killerwithkindness Avatar
    killerwithkindness

    Very nice quote 🙂 ❤

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Ehh..did i😇😇

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  17. aishahnaaz Avatar
    aishahnaaz

    I thought you’d mention Heisenberg’s uncertainty here. 😂😂😂 And yeah, it’s really thrilling to have some uncertainties. And later, even if the outcome wasn’t the one we wanted, we’d be smiling at its memory in the long run. 😄😄

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      He he…Heisenberg’s principle….
      Uncertainties are the doorways to opportunities…

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  18. Pauletry Avatar
    Pauletry

    I agree with you fully on this, Akhila…uncertainty definitely kills the boredom 😃😃

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      True..it fights with boredom and help us to be active always

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      1. Pauletry Avatar
        Pauletry

        Who knows what tomorrow holds…

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  19. kingsleydgenius Avatar
    kingsleydgenius

    According to inserberg uncertainties principles… No two act can be understand sumitaneously for that’s what makes life not to be boring . Cause trying to understand it make life move on

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Heisenberg’s principle is much appreciated…and i loved that you linked it to the post..

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  20. shivashishspeaks Avatar
    shivashishspeaks

    Nice post
    Great
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    shivashishspeaks.wordpress.com

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      thanks..will read your posts

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  21. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar
    boundlessblessingsblog

    Yes Akhila so agree with your post. One has to go thru uncertainties to appreciate what a certainty is and that is life. Beautifully written.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thank you so much…i liked what you said, that to value the certainties, we must know what’s uncertainty

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar
        boundlessblessingsblog

        Yes dear in this world of duality we have to weigh our pros and cons and then will we know where to go, we all have to go thru this roller coaster. Akhila give your feedback and let me know if you liked the poem i wrote on That is Living.

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Ya..will definitely read and get back to you…

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          1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar
            boundlessblessingsblog

            Thanks dear

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  22. Fairy Kumar Avatar
    Fairy Kumar

    Very correct… As always👍👍

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      I will pray god to bless my little fairy with enough uncertainties..😜😜

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      1. Fairy Kumar Avatar
        Fairy Kumar

        Thank you soo much! And, I am sure you’ll be able to tackle them very nicely.

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  23. Kiran Goswami Avatar
    Kiran Goswami

    Oh yeah.. What a beautiful message 😊
    Uncertainties are ofcourse fun and thrill, without them life would be so mundane..

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Yes kiran..and we rarely appreciate that..isnt it

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  24. doodlessworld Avatar
    doodlessworld

    Like always, i keep waiting for your posts.
    and love them as soon as i read the tittle 😉
    you always surprise me with your thoughts 🙂

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thank you so much…but i am not that good in having catchy titles… I am learning that..,😉

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      1. doodlessworld Avatar
        doodlessworld

        Okay.
        😉

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          😉

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  25. ladiescornerweb Avatar
    ladiescornerweb

    love love love….I shall try to be okay with uncertainty

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Lol…just be patient and enjoy the uncertainty 😉

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  26. extinct0703 Avatar
    extinct0703

    Why do you have this habit of shaking me off my seat with all the thought provoking ideas of yours?

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Lol…please bear with me😉

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      1. extinct0703 Avatar
        extinct0703

        Have no option 😝😝😝

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  27. Deepika Kumaaraguru Avatar
    Deepika Kumaaraguru

    A very true message you have given here, Akhila. Life’s beauty is the fact that it is unpredictable and it is waking up in the morning with no idea of what is going to happen that makes it a glorious adventure 😀

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      You are absolutely right deepika…and it’s a beautiful fact i realized in this new year…

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      1. Deepika Kumaaraguru Avatar
        Deepika Kumaaraguru

        Good on you, Akhila! 🙂

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  28. thewritewomanblog Avatar
    thewritewomanblog

    Good morning, Akhi!
    Absolutely! The thrill of uncertainty is very exciting. How boring life would be if everything was clear and certain.
    Have a super exciting day, Akhi!

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      Thanks my nitha….so let us create uncertainties and make the life more exciting

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      1. thewritewomanblog Avatar
        thewritewomanblog

        Absolutely, Akhi!

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  29. Vinayak Gupta Avatar
    Vinayak Gupta

    Its like when its good its wonderful, when its bad its experience 🙂

    Uncertainty is must in ones life, it actually make our life thrilling and by this we get to know our capability to deal with it…

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      i agree with you vinyak.. still can we always cope up with those bad uncertainties..

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      1. Vinayak Gupta Avatar
        Vinayak Gupta

        yeah you are write we can can cope up with all those bad uncertainties…

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  30. Masoom Jethwa Avatar
    Masoom Jethwa

    Apt and beautiful web for those stuck in between committed and complicated status ! I do this uncertainty with my life !

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      thanks masoom.. so do you enjoy those uncertainties..?

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      1. Masoom Jethwa Avatar
        Masoom Jethwa

        Yes if the count is unknown, No, If I know the OUTCOME.. 😛 !! WHat about you Akhila? 🙂

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        1. Akhila Avatar
          Akhila

          Lol…i too was anxious on uncertainties earlier..but nowadays seems better😉

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          1. Masoom Jethwa Avatar
            Masoom Jethwa

            But I feel we should do it more often. 😀 Setting fire to keep the uncertainty warm. 😂😂😂 Romba solid.

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            1. Akhila Avatar
              Akhila

              😂😂

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  31. Bikramjit Avatar
    Bikramjit

    Well that is what makes life beautiful… and spicy

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      yes Bikram… infact it is really tough when things not clear in front of you.. but as you said, there is something spicy and beautiful inspiring us..

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  32. Shreya Sharma Avatar
    Shreya Sharma

    Agree. Without uncertainties, we’d be sure of everything and how come we will get experiences, life will turn boring.
    Uncertainties adds thrill, suspense, an additional interest to the life. 😊😇

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      ya..i know, you are in such a thrill now, isnt it.. waiting for results..

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      1. Shreya Sharma Avatar
        Shreya Sharma

        Too much!

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  33. misstalkaholic Avatar
    misstalkaholic

    I don’t remember when I asked myself this question.. I guess 6-7 years back.. haha..

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      ha ha..lol..i added it just for a fun..

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  34. jacquelineobyikocha Avatar
    jacquelineobyikocha

    If everything is certain then we won’t venture for growth.

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      true Jacque. the seeds of growth is embedded in uncertainties..

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  35. kiranmag Avatar
    kiranmag

    Very correctly said Akhila 😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      thanks my dear..

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  36. A Walk into the Woods Avatar
    A Walk into the Woods

    Its the unknown that has always attracted man to carve his own destiny. If all were known, man would become too complacent even to move a finger. Curiosity, uncertainty and the whys of the world aid in evolution. Did i take it to another tangent? 😛

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    1. Akhila Avatar
      Akhila

      You are absolutely right…nothing wrong in your dimensions.. it’s the unpredictable nature of the universe which makes us continue our explorations and create wonders in the world

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