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Never rescue your kids from mistakes

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Never rescue your kids from mistakes. If you do, they will just continue the same and never learn to improve. So in effect, parents are spoiling their kids by allowing them to commit the mistakes repeatedly. Instead have a protective eye, ensure their safety, warn them on the consequences, still if they are continuing with their mistakes,  let them do it. They will learn naturally from their consequences. And why not build up some harmless consequences, if they are not learning naturally..;)

And on the other side, if you are not enforcing those rules and disciplinary actions, kids will feel really bad, like you are not bothered on them.. So never hesitate to have disciplinary actions. So switch the mode very often.

Author: Akhila

Akhila is a plant-woman breathing poetries, a self motivated life long learner decoding signs from the universe and a blogger bleeding out all the intoxicated imperfections of her soul through words. Her works have been featured in several online publications and anthologies. She is the founder and sole contributor of wordsandnotion and qualitynotion.

63 thoughts on “Never rescue your kids from mistakes”

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  2. Naimah Ra'idah
    January 9, 2017 at 1:59 am

    You are absolutely correct! Kids have to make their own mistakes and learn from their own experiences.

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  3. shellysopinion
    January 6, 2017 at 4:08 am

    As a young mom I really do struggle at times, thanks for sharing, it helps.

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  4. scintillatingmemoirs
    November 13, 2016 at 3:20 am

    True and stopping them is the best way of guiding them! 🙂

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  5. pins & ashes
    November 12, 2016 at 12:46 pm

    Whatever it is, you are doing an excellent job at raising yours 😊

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  6. girlandworld
    November 12, 2016 at 12:00 am

    It’s harsh but really one of the much needed advice to today’s parents

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  7. Megha Agrawal
    November 11, 2016 at 6:34 pm

    Being a mom of school going kid totally agree with you.

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  9. Sweta Ojha
    November 11, 2016 at 11:39 am

    Switch the mode is definitely the best code. The truth and very well said. 🙂

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  10. Shalini Sharrma
    November 10, 2016 at 10:55 pm

    I always appreciate when kids do learn naturally but again as u said disciplinary actions are important to condition them right ways.. Good one.. 🙂

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  11. Shiva Malekopmath
    November 10, 2016 at 6:14 pm

    I agree to every word of what you say. In a way to disciplining the child is one way loving them in the true sense.
    I have posted one on my top page right now it is fresh, you may please contribute your opinion on that, it’s the same as that of your this post. ” Children’s Income”
    Shiva
    👌👍🙋

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  12. skd
    November 10, 2016 at 6:11 pm

    Have you seen the new short film from Pixar? Its called Piper. Please do not miss it. Show to you hus and kids as well…in just 6 minutes, it touches our heart and reminds us some values and facts in life. So deep 🙂
    I bet, you will love it:)

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  13. cp_chithra_cp
    November 10, 2016 at 4:26 pm

    So true..yes..there is a mother in all of us..including a man! I loved your comment too..😍😘

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  15. theonlysup
    November 10, 2016 at 2:29 pm

    well yes . i agree with point about making them aware of the consequences since u mentioned school going kids, they are pretty much vulnerable to wrong doing which can be a result of many external factors including friends , family.these kids are keen observers and have low acceptance level and are willing to do what you restrict them to do often. so rather screen , scolding hitting , its always important for parents to make them understand the consequences . some time i will have to agree with u akhila 😉

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  16. Akhila
    November 10, 2016 at 2:20 pm

    a kind a of strict flexibility

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  17. A
    November 10, 2016 at 11:53 am

    Like they say ..

    Children in the dark make mistakes and
    Mistakes in the dark make children ..😂😂😂

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  18. theonlysup
    November 10, 2016 at 10:55 am

    Before I could comment please let me know kids of what age are u referring to ??

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  19. Infinite Living
    November 10, 2016 at 10:48 am

    Very well said, they gotta have their own experiences.

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  20. sudershana
    November 10, 2016 at 10:43 am

    Haha, that seems I am a spoiled child, haha. Jokes apart, more often I am tied by the rules like a strict timing for the hangout, that’s okay I don’t like to hangout. After having a wardrobe full of clothes not a single place left, and realizing it I have to donate some of my new clothes to the caretaker, there is strict restriction on my shopping, which I don’t like

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  21. myheartbeats4ublog
    November 10, 2016 at 10:26 am

    absolutely right, ma’am akhila!!

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  22. Josh
    November 10, 2016 at 10:07 am

    True, Happy Morning 🙂

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  23. Steve
    November 10, 2016 at 9:49 am

    You seem to be a good mother….😜

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