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Never rescue your kids from mistakes

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Never rescue your kids from mistakes. If you do, they will just continue the same and never learn to improve. So in effect, parents are spoiling their kids by allowing them to commit the mistakes repeatedly. Instead have a protective eye, ensure their safety, warn them on the consequences, still if they are continuing with their mistakes,  let them do it. They will learn naturally from their consequences. And why not build up some harmless consequences, if they are not learning naturally..;)

And on the other side, if you are not enforcing those rules and disciplinary actions, kids will feel really bad, like you are not bothered on them.. So never hesitate to have disciplinary actions. So switch the mode very often.

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Author: Akhila

I am flying across the space between words and whipping up whimsical waves of notion to discern the quantum code of my soul.

63 thoughts on “Never rescue your kids from mistakes

  1. You are absolutely correct! Kids have to make their own mistakes and learn from their own experiences.

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  2. As a young mom I really do struggle at times, thanks for sharing, it helps.

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  3. True and stopping them is the best way of guiding them! 🙂

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  4. Whatever it is, you are doing an excellent job at raising yours 😊

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  5. It’s harsh but really one of the much needed advice to today’s parents

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  6. Being a mom of school going kid totally agree with you.

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  7. Switch the mode is definitely the best code. The truth and very well said. 🙂

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  8. I always appreciate when kids do learn naturally but again as u said disciplinary actions are important to condition them right ways.. Good one.. 🙂

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  9. I agree to every word of what you say. In a way to disciplining the child is one way loving them in the true sense.
    I have posted one on my top page right now it is fresh, you may please contribute your opinion on that, it’s the same as that of your this post. ” Children’s Income”
    Shiva
    👌👍🙋

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  10. Have you seen the new short film from Pixar? Its called Piper. Please do not miss it. Show to you hus and kids as well…in just 6 minutes, it touches our heart and reminds us some values and facts in life. So deep 🙂
    I bet, you will love it:)

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  11. So true..yes..there is a mother in all of us..including a man! I loved your comment too..😍😘

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  12. well yes . i agree with point about making them aware of the consequences since u mentioned school going kids, they are pretty much vulnerable to wrong doing which can be a result of many external factors including friends , family.these kids are keen observers and have low acceptance level and are willing to do what you restrict them to do often. so rather screen , scolding hitting , its always important for parents to make them understand the consequences . some time i will have to agree with u akhila 😉

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  13. a kind a of strict flexibility

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  14. Like they say ..

    Children in the dark make mistakes and
    Mistakes in the dark make children ..😂😂😂

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  15. Before I could comment please let me know kids of what age are u referring to ??

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  16. Very well said, they gotta have their own experiences.

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  17. Haha, that seems I am a spoiled child, haha. Jokes apart, more often I am tied by the rules like a strict timing for the hangout, that’s okay I don’t like to hangout. After having a wardrobe full of clothes not a single place left, and realizing it I have to donate some of my new clothes to the caretaker, there is strict restriction on my shopping, which I don’t like

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  18. absolutely right, ma’am akhila!!

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  19. True, Happy Morning 🙂

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  20. You seem to be a good mother….😜

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