Never rescue your kids from mistakes. If you do, they will just continue the same and never learn to improve. So in effect, parents are spoiling their kids by allowing them to commit the mistakes repeatedly. Instead have a protective eye, ensure their safety, warn them on the consequences, still if they are continuing with their mistakes, let them do it. They will learn naturally from their consequences. And why not build up some harmless consequences, if they are not learning naturally..;)
And on the other side, if you are not enforcing those rules and disciplinary actions, kids will feel really bad, like you are not bothered on them.. So never hesitate to have disciplinary actions. So switch the mode very often.
January 10, 2017 at 6:11 pm
This is my mantra ❤
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January 10, 2017 at 9:48 pm
Is it..hope you are excelling in the same
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January 9, 2017 at 1:59 am
You are absolutely correct! Kids have to make their own mistakes and learn from their own experiences.
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January 9, 2017 at 11:12 am
Thanks you naimah..i can feel a motherly hand behind these words
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January 6, 2017 at 4:08 am
As a young mom I really do struggle at times, thanks for sharing, it helps.
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January 6, 2017 at 9:29 am
Thanks a lot for sharing your views..have more fun time with your kids
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November 13, 2016 at 3:20 am
True and stopping them is the best way of guiding them! 🙂
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November 13, 2016 at 10:45 am
thanks dear…
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November 14, 2016 at 1:44 am
You’re welcome! 🙂
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November 12, 2016 at 12:46 pm
Whatever it is, you are doing an excellent job at raising yours 😊
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November 12, 2016 at 5:43 pm
ente aswathikkutty, vayaru niranju….thiruppathiyayi…
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November 12, 2016 at 7:02 pm
Allengil aa kochu ente friend aavillalo 😂😂😂
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November 13, 2016 at 10:52 am
😂😂
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November 12, 2016 at 12:00 am
It’s harsh but really one of the much needed advice to today’s parents
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November 12, 2016 at 11:15 am
be harsh and soft..be strict and flexible..
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November 11, 2016 at 6:34 pm
Being a mom of school going kid totally agree with you.
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November 11, 2016 at 7:47 pm
Ya..thanks megha..
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November 11, 2016 at 2:48 pm
Great advise to all.
Good day dear.
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November 11, 2016 at 5:51 pm
thank you.. have a great time
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November 11, 2016 at 11:39 am
Switch the mode is definitely the best code. The truth and very well said. 🙂
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November 11, 2016 at 11:53 am
thanks Swe.
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November 10, 2016 at 10:55 pm
I always appreciate when kids do learn naturally but again as u said disciplinary actions are important to condition them right ways.. Good one.. 🙂
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November 11, 2016 at 9:32 am
Ya..we need to switch the mode …
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November 10, 2016 at 6:14 pm
I agree to every word of what you say. In a way to disciplining the child is one way loving them in the true sense.
I have posted one on my top page right now it is fresh, you may please contribute your opinion on that, it’s the same as that of your this post. ” Children’s Income”
Shiva
👌👍🙋
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November 10, 2016 at 8:09 pm
Thanks shiva sir… Definitely will check it out soon
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November 10, 2016 at 6:11 pm
Have you seen the new short film from Pixar? Its called Piper. Please do not miss it. Show to you hus and kids as well…in just 6 minutes, it touches our heart and reminds us some values and facts in life. So deep 🙂
I bet, you will love it:)
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November 10, 2016 at 8:14 pm
👍
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November 10, 2016 at 4:26 pm
So true..yes..there is a mother in all of us..including a man! I loved your comment too..😍😘
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November 10, 2016 at 4:33 pm
it’s not my words chitra.. i heard it somewhere…yes it was a hijack upon hari..;)
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November 10, 2016 at 4:48 pm
Haha..😊😀 but I just loved it
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November 10, 2016 at 8:20 pm
Have a look at his 24 th heartbeat, if time permits
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November 10, 2016 at 8:42 pm
Okay sure! 😊
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November 10, 2016 at 9:19 pm
I have recently posted a malayalam poem in my blog..please read it when you get time..and share your views..dearuu..😄😄😊
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November 11, 2016 at 10:34 am
vayichu, too…commented also
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November 10, 2016 at 3:40 pm
Good lesson.
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November 10, 2016 at 4:17 pm
😉
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November 10, 2016 at 2:29 pm
well yes . i agree with point about making them aware of the consequences since u mentioned school going kids, they are pretty much vulnerable to wrong doing which can be a result of many external factors including friends , family.these kids are keen observers and have low acceptance level and are willing to do what you restrict them to do often. so rather screen , scolding hitting , its always important for parents to make them understand the consequences . some time i will have to agree with u akhila 😉
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November 10, 2016 at 2:33 pm
Ah…finally deal
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November 10, 2016 at 2:34 pm
haha.. cheers for that ..
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November 10, 2016 at 2:20 pm
a kind a of strict flexibility
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November 10, 2016 at 11:53 am
Like they say ..
Children in the dark make mistakes and
Mistakes in the dark make children ..😂😂😂
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November 10, 2016 at 2:47 pm
let them say, but what do you wanna say?
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November 10, 2016 at 2:49 pm
Ask Ash!
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November 10, 2016 at 2:51 pm
asked her.. but you already have a 60 year old voice, no.. so why cannt you
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November 10, 2016 at 2:54 pm
Public. Public
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November 10, 2016 at 10:55 am
Before I could comment please let me know kids of what age are u referring to ??
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November 10, 2016 at 2:20 pm
ya, i should have mentioned it.. definitely not infants, but could be school going kids..
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November 10, 2016 at 10:48 am
Very well said, they gotta have their own experiences.
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November 10, 2016 at 2:21 pm
yes Pragalbha…give them enough flexibility, but with a protective eye always
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November 10, 2016 at 10:43 am
Haha, that seems I am a spoiled child, haha. Jokes apart, more often I am tied by the rules like a strict timing for the hangout, that’s okay I don’t like to hangout. After having a wardrobe full of clothes not a single place left, and realizing it I have to donate some of my new clothes to the caretaker, there is strict restriction on my shopping, which I don’t like
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November 10, 2016 at 2:22 pm
restriction on shoping.. it is good, no…
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November 10, 2016 at 2:24 pm
Haha, for few days.
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November 10, 2016 at 2:31 pm
you naughty girl…let me talk to your parents 😉
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November 10, 2016 at 4:13 pm
They will definitely share the same perspective as you have. Then also I love this thing about them, strange but true when they don’t stop me for something I started thinking are they upset?
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November 10, 2016 at 4:18 pm
so think…
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November 10, 2016 at 10:26 am
absolutely right, ma’am akhila!!
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November 10, 2016 at 2:22 pm
thank you Sir
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November 10, 2016 at 2:30 pm
hmmmm…
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November 10, 2016 at 10:07 am
True, Happy Morning 🙂
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November 10, 2016 at 2:23 pm
🙂
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November 10, 2016 at 9:49 am
You seem to be a good mother….😜
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November 10, 2016 at 2:23 pm
there is a mother in all of us, including you
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November 10, 2016 at 2:27 pm
Yeah Offcou….. Out of which, I said, you seem to be good…..excluding me…..
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