She knew that she was just one among his crushes. Still she couldn’t resist talking to him. She was very well aware of his flaws. Still she was bound to him…
Yes, there are certain people in our life, influencing us a lot, need not be in a good way, though.
Need not be expressed, need not be revealed, still we love to hear from them..
What’s the name of this kind of relationship..? A blind addiction.., isn’t it..?
Shhh…after all this is a mystery, no😜
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As in your DP..😉
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I think your views are more apt to the situation
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thank you..:)
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i hope its soul mate relationship..i believe in soul.rebirth as we wear new shirt..soul just goes to new body when this body cease to function..
so somehow they might have been ur better half long ago..if u read my soul mate research papers…in the blog…u will understand..i have published 3 reports final one is pending….it gives me a shocking result of a mathamatical calculation..of 35 soul mates….you must read that post..will be posted in 2 weeks…
ehhh…
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ha, you are right…it is a name less relation 😉
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and are you still proud of to be a bad influencer..ehh..??
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Tvm or Germany?
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What does that mean
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Where will the party be! Don’t you guys need to celebrate?
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Celebrate what
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Ghajji amnesia? What Akhi just proclaimed ya! …
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You mean silencing me ??
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That is a hi5 to Akhila, we two will have a girl’s party! 😁😁😂😂😂
No idiot! The part where she said it could be you 😁😁
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You will always remember this as the day you almost silenced The Great Vicky
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You admit it! Heheeh! Akhi we need to party ya!
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Two hours of waiting for your response and you think you’ve silenced me.. such juvenile behavior.. grow up.. not grow round 😂
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I’m honoured ya! You waited two bloody long hours! Impressed! 😂😂
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Baby you’re worth the wait
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Baby-o …cleaning my ears.. Pourong Earwax!
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See you can’t type that properly.. your heart deceives you😂
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You wanna silence me! 😁😁
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Mission accomplished
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And 200!
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Mission accomplished.. two fruits one stone😂
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Alexander the great ah! Great Vicky it seems 🙄🙄🙄🙄
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Peter the great
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The Pope! Paul was greater!
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I am the greatest
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Poooof! That the post says! Haha!
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Fetching a hammer!
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What are you?? Thor ??
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His sister!
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Illegitimate child of Odin ??
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Or the could be you one ??
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Now you are getting back on track! Yes!
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Ah that yes … Proclamation of attraction .. that deserves a party but where, that’s something to ponder upon 😂
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Germany! Of course October fest.
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I am not King Ludwig to host Oktoberfest ..
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Prince of mush can host a September blog fest!
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I love to party. Drinks all around!
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Let them eat cake too!
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Talk like adults .. drinks and joints .. weed and rum .. let’s get high on life and drugs what say you😂
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Weed rum cake! The heaven it would be!
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Amsterdam all over again .. rum cakes and marijuana ones delicious . Forget the world and let’s live in wonderland
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Invite Alice and the queen! Coffee please no tea
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The queen is the one who confessed her feelings today no ! She’s the host ya, Alice .. no, I have eyes for only one woman 😂😂 . I am one woman man you see 😂😂😂😂 semper Fi
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Lucky Queen! Ya..queen of spadeqs though!
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Queen of hearts .. at least my heart 😂
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true.. we cannot detach ourselves from some people
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Love is funny… We do things that we wud not otherwise..
But I also think that many of us give way too much weightage to love..
So what if it’s one sided.. at least you loved someone.. that is good .. that other person is unlucky to not have got the love .
Add relationships to the mixture and it becomes a bigger mystery..
ha ha… i liked it ” add relationships to the mixture and make it a big mystery”
but you know, https://wordsandnotion.wordpress.com/2016/01/06/how-crazy-im-for-you/
hmm..??
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Ma’am…(idikkalle)
Some relationships are unexplainable. I wouldn’t term the one you have brought out as ‘addiction’, and certainly not love/lust/crush/infatuation!Then what should one call it?
well…perhaps that is the charm of such a relationship, it just cannot be defined in simple words. But it has a special charm, that rekindles the heart in an unique way.. both the parties enjoy it, albeit do not acknowledge the ‘life’ it injects into one’s life!! Of course, it has it’s own flaws too….
and you missed one, may be one defining my inner self ” https://wordsandnotion.wordpress.com/2016/01/06/how-crazy-im-for-you/“
I agree with you Varsha. Better to speak out than keep it within. If it’s no, it’s a no. Few days we might feel bad but then we will move on. Holding onto a hope that they will someday like us is not OK. I think that is how a stalking instinct is born isn’t it. Like them, get obsessed, though they ignore try to gain their attention and finally start stalking. Harmless crush is like you find them good looking until you find someone else who is better than your current crush.😂😂😂😂😂
Yes. But too much infatuation is dangerous. It’s very difficult to define love these days, because love has become more dependent on things like money and Beauty. People don’t believe in inner beauty, if someone is rixh, handsome or pretty, that is all one looks for in a partner. (Not all are like this, though)
Exactly. If supposedly one person cannot see your virtues it doesn’t mean no one ever will. You cannot close your heart to others waiting for that one person to magically learn of your feelings, since you don’t want to speak of them. Again, it doesn’t mean he will reciprocate too.
Exactly! Waiting for that person who might never fall in love with you. People never change, and yet they cling on thinking that he or she will change. There are few who try to change the ones whom they love and finally say “you were not like this before!”
Love does not come with conditions. Accepting someone the way they are, and not trying to change them is love. Nobody is born perfect so why try to shape up someone to live up to your expectations just because you love them?? People will never understand this…
😂😂😂😂 I am trying to imagine you like that. Sorry, can’t. 😜
Counselling can be draining. You never know what kind of problems come to you with and you have to guide them without being judgemental or getting affected by it. I’m kind of an agony aunt for my friends too, but totally clueless where I’m concerned. 😂😂😂😂
That’s true varsha. Ther are people who are in worst situations than we can ever imagine. Keeping our emotions tight when they sit in front of us crying, is very difficult. And not just that, being a counsellor, suppose one of your patients gives up hope on life and does the unexpected (ending their life), we do get a thought that ‘may be I could have done better. I should have put in more effort to convince them that they are not alone’.
Those medicines that are prescribed work only as long as patients take it regularly. Stopping it abruptly will result in a more severe case than before. Too many things to think about before planning to be a counsellor or physiatrist. It’s not a cake walk to say I can help people. When depressed, one never knows what thoughts the mind gets.
It is a very serious and responsible job. You’re right, we can try our best but still if the worst happens we cannot easily forgive us for what happened. Medicines are temporary and can help only for a limited time frame. Unless and until the person is prepared to consciously work on himself no one can help him. Not even the counsellor. Hats off to you for even attempting it. I can never do that. I’m amongst the weak ones who doesn’t watch tv or read the newspaper for days following some tragedy somewhere.
These medicines only improve the chemical reactions in our brain. There is a compound in our that helps in thought process, these medicines help in regaining the lost compound. (I am a lay man so I don’t know the scientific terms, hence I am mentioning it as compound)
But being strong, having that will power and saying that this is just a phase, it will pass helps. Atleast in small cases, not in severe cases where medicines are mandatory.
Even physiatrists are human isn’t it. No matter how strong anybody is, there comes a situation when they do get tears in their eyes or atleast they feel bad for the other person. Some things are unavoidable, easy to say but going through that phase is difficult.
But ya, what I said is my thoughts on love. 😊 Seen a lot of people ending their relationships blaming the other partner. Sometimes the mistake is from both sides, and sometimes it’s because of cheating from one side. Times have changed. It’s not like how it was years ago, love is now materialistic, and not about feelings or commitment.
True. People attach other things with love now. The mere fact of enjoying each other’s company is moot if you aren’t doing so at some place that can be flaunted to your friends and followers. Time is an important factor I think, since our busy lives give us little time or energy to invest in our relationships. Anyway, blaming the other one or cheating isn’t the solution.
And with social media playing a major role in our lives, it’s about who’s having the best partner!! Posting photos with them is all people do. It’s like a competition, my partner is the best! It’s not about being the best, nobody is going to win a prize! It’s about being happy with that someone . Nobody understands that. Money cannot bring happiness. If it does, then temporary. I am talking about those who say “he’s rich, he gifted me a diamond necklace, Gucci bag. Blah blah) someone is happy because they got a Gucci bag and not because they are with that person!! So is it love thy bag?😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 What about the I love you and you are my life etc msgs to your spouse/partner publicly? A actually saw one such message one day and asked me…they are living separately or what…can’t they just tell each other in person? 😂😂😂 Ofcourse the bag is important, it carries truckloads of their ego in it afterall! Bagwati. 👜👜 😂😂😂
Yes yes…so only tag her. The team can watch untagged. 😂😂😂
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To willingly yearn for a person you are nobody for…that’s alright I guess. The addiction is acceptable if you don’t let it make you sad or bitter on the inside. That person might not know about you and end up doing something to hurt you unknowingly. Better to speak it out and face the consequences.
Haha…to be liked someone who loves variety? No, thank you. 😆😆
I didn’t say I disagree with your post. Our approaches might be different. I believe keeping quiet and internalising is harmful and will one day or the other affect your other relationships too. Is the person worth it?
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so true..
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The thing i believe is that, we should not do things copying what the other person has done, instead we should fill it with something fresh, and i also keep on preaching to people that LOVE = Work-In-Progress, and you need not to be monotonous, imitating the way other couple do, things which works for them may not work for you. Its magical and you should never copy or reveal the core of your trade 🙂 **Oru Glass vellam 😛 **
“Crushed” addiction.😂😂
Aks, don’t you think at some point of time, we do expect them to reveal their feelings for us? Or atleast if we plan to tell them, we do hope that they will have the same feelings towards us that we have for them?
When such things don’t go as expected, the term used to describe this situation is called “love failure” or “heart break”.
words and notion 
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