My speech lessons

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Never did I know that I was speaking very fast, that it’s pretty difficult for the listeners to follow me. And when in school, I started to hear my friends teasing on my speed, and you know, I was the biggest chump to accept it as a golden feather on my cap . And so never did I change until I reached the corporate world. There, when I have to take trainings and all, my manager asked me to record and listen to my own voice. So I recorded and heard my own voice.. oh..no.. Nothing more to say…my powerful voice (note the powerful ;)..) appeared like a hurricane.

If we start to identify our falls and a take deliberate move initially, our mind will be tuned accordingly and no doubt that it will be in our hands naturally after a period.

My speed story started to change from the very first moment I listened my own speech. And I’m quite confident on the cautious steps I took. Even if I may not still fit into the common man’s speed every now and then, I have no doubt that I am audible and clear now. Because now, atleast I could feel whenever my speed is firing up. So a natural prevention (not any more deliberate, it comes in naturally) happens which was missing in the past as never could I detect the fastness.

79 responses to “My speech lessons”

  1. Failing to formulate the thoughts into speech even while being a good listener? – Words and Notion Avatar

    […] could reduce your pace.” This was something echoing in my ears always in the past as posted in My speech lessons. Well, I am born without a speed breaker in my tongue. It took a long time for me to realize it […]

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  2. Balamurali Avatar
    Balamurali

    Understating the scope of improvement, accepting it and working on it naturally is the way for any corrective action. You have been wonderful in that. Keep going

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      ha…your words made me smile.. thank you so much

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  3. shreyathewriter Avatar

    Wow ! I wanna hear you speak. Coz I’m too patient to interpret fast speech 😀

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ha ha..so i need your help…

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  4. davekingsbury Avatar

    Perhaps you think quickly and try to catch up with your thoughts … better than the opposite, I would think!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      so nice of you dave…i am filtering out that “perhaps” in your comment 😉

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      1. davekingsbury Avatar

        Me too, change it to ‘I bet’ …

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          ha ha.. can you see the dancing me..;)

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  5. DARKLOVE9095 Avatar

    If u r on Instagram follow @dark_love_9095

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      not yet…:)

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      1. DARKLOVE9095 Avatar

        Okay.. Might be someday later…

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  6. Akhila Avatar

    he he…

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  7. Shilpa Mary Cherian Avatar
    Shilpa Mary Cherian

    Oh my! This made me remember one of my horrible experiences way back. Speech was one of my required classes, since I study in U.S. People used to laugh at my Indian accent whenever I gave speeches in that class. I had to train myself out of embarrassment to speak in the so called “American accent”, which I’m good with now!
    Nice post by the way.. loved the quote!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks shilpa for noticing the quote….and your words are the perfect example for the quote..

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  8. DARKLOVE9095 Avatar

    Same problem with me. They say i speak as if I am a road runner….

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      he he lol…nice to meet this road runner…

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      1. DARKLOVE9095 Avatar

        Lol 😁

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  9. Nisthur Anadi Avatar
    Nisthur Anadi

    Haha haaa just kidding

    Productivity is your mantra I believe !

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      the more busy , the more productive.. may be that’s why i try end up the speech quickly..;)

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      1. Nisthur Anadi Avatar
        Nisthur Anadi

        Yeah true , you can also try to be slow some times, it’s not that bad indeed.

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          ha ha…why not.. there is a lazy mode also for me, making me slow

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          1. Nisthur Anadi Avatar
            Nisthur Anadi

            Haha haaa I know that, but I have heard about being slow and focused and living each moment to its fullest like there is no next moment exists , life here and now always.

            Actually each one of us is different and intrestingly every body is equally good and complete.

            Haha haaa let me know your progress for being slow …

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  10. sagarika Avatar
    sagarika

    Loved it ‘…whenever my speed is firing up.’ Thank God! could catch up with the written words! 😉

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      he he.. thanks Sagarika…😉

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  11. Bikramjit Avatar
    Bikramjit

    That is a good.. way. Record yourself and listen . Good idea. .

    I might just do one day because I think my voice puts off people 😎😎

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Ha ha…so give a try…let us see

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  12. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

    Hahaha so nice to hear ones voice and then rectify on it. Good.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      ha ha.. thank you..did you ever feel such necessities…?

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog Avatar

        Yes

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  13. mySestina Avatar

    you must record and out your speech here so that we can listen to you.. also, I am sure that understanding our own flaws only takes us to be better in life.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      he he….i wish you people to listen to my words and not my voice..

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      1. mySestina Avatar

        hehe.. i would love to listen to both

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          😉

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  14. Sunith Avatar

    A good speaker always gives the audience the time to think on the sentences as part of the speech delivery..so am happy you have slowed down, Akhila…

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks Sunith.. That’s really a good point you mentioned..

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  15. pins & ashes Avatar

    Rate of speech is equal rate of speed of thought, so faster the thought, faster the speed, same with typing!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      yayyyyyy… it’s a good symbol…

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      1. pins & ashes Avatar

        good symbol of .. ?
        and what is the yayyyyyy for 😛

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          dancing ‘y’ s….

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          1. pins & ashes Avatar

            okai.. (bass)
            y’s dances! (high pitch)
            mm (no intonation)

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  16. prashantt Avatar
    prashantt

    Haahaa…thank god then that here we can read your words instead listening..😉 but yes,a very good post stating to be a successful person because i always believe the one who act to learn towards his weakness will be a successful one.👍

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      ya.. true that here you dont have to listen me..lucky you , no..;)

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      1. prashantt Avatar
        prashantt

        haahaa….no,would love to here you sometime with both versions of speed 😛

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          zygs also telling the same..

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  17. avinamdar Avatar

    Hahaha…. Watch out for the Akhila express! 😂😜

    I never had a speed problem, however the few times I heard my own recorded voice, I can tell you that I did not like it at all! 😂😂😂 I still wonder why my teachers made me take part in elocution competitions and plays in school. 🙈😂

    I still remember giving a speech and singing some patriotic songs on the last day of school. I was made to do it, even though I kept declining to do it! I told the teacher it would be the last day of school, she can’t force me to do anything. Apparently I was wrong, because it turns out I was still afraid to go to the principal’s office and say no. 😂😂😂

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      ha ha.. advaitha…hearing one of my names after a long time…shhhhh

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      1. avinamdar Avatar

        😂👍👍

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  18. myheartbeats4ublog Avatar

    hahaha..noted for future!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      God bless you 😉

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      1. myheartbeats4ublog Avatar

        oh…then it is ok ma’am akhila…

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  19. radhikasreflection Avatar

    When we find others sailing in the same boat, guess, it makes us happy.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      he he ..exactly..you got it..;)

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  20. nameless Avatar
    nameless

    I went through the same .. I was told I have a very high rate of speech and I speak without intonation. I had to record my voice listen to it and do a lot of work and I still believe that needs a lot of improvement

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      so we are on the same boat….

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      1. nameless Avatar
        nameless

        Most of the time yes ☺

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          atleast in this case, I mean rate of speech, I am sure now…
          but why were you invisible for a long..?

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          1. nameless Avatar
            nameless

            I am invisible and people believing me and talking to me makes me feel like God 😂

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              oh…believing is not a precondition for talking 😉

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              1. nameless Avatar
                nameless

                Right but you don’t talk to someone who you don’t believe you’re a friends with right ☺

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                1. Akhila Avatar

                  in this virtual world , i dint think that i am talking to all as i believe them all…i am just stating my views.. isnt it..?

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                  1. nameless Avatar
                    nameless

                    You believe they are humans and not zombies .. that’s a start 😂😂😂😂

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            2. pins & ashes Avatar

              ya right!(to nameless)
              entammme enne kollu (to Akhila)
              lol lol lol (to me)

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          2. nameless Avatar
            nameless

            A friend told me .. people who read a lot tend to have a high rate of speech

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              hmm.. your friend also with a high rate of speed..??..;)

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              1. nameless Avatar
                nameless

                No she doesn’t.. she just told

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                1. Akhila Avatar

                  hmm..

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  21. radhikasreflection Avatar

    I too used to speak very fast. Once w I had to introduce a speaker on the dias. Later everyone was asking me why I went off like the super fast Rajdhani express. Now I conscious about the my speedometer when I speak😉😉

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      ha ha.. donno why I am so happy to read your comment.. 😉 .. selfish me , no..?? 😉

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  22. parijat shukla Avatar
    parijat shukla

    You should have posted two voice samples from past and present to enable us to appreciate better 🙂 :).

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      ha ha…good morning parijat

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      1. parijat shukla Avatar
        parijat shukla

        good morning Akhila 😊

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  23. K. Bellamy with a Purpose Avatar
    K. Bellamy with a Purpose

    This has made me think about the speed of my speech. I wonder if people think I speak fast.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      ha ha.. just record and listen to that after a day ..

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      1. K. Bellamy with a Purpose Avatar
        K. Bellamy with a Purpose

        I will

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          the first step is identifying the weakness..then we are half through

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          1. K. Bellamy with a Purpose Avatar
            K. Bellamy with a Purpose

            Thanks be sure to check out changes

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              thumbs up..

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              1. K. Bellamy with a Purpose Avatar
                K. Bellamy with a Purpose

                to blog and self

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