Female Behaviour- 4

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Mr X : Wow.. look at her.. 

Mr Y :Oooh..

Mr X : ……..

If she had a boyish figure, will she be a blossom in your eyes..?

If she doesn’t have that curves and curls, will you still ogle her..?

Is it because of the feminine shape, she is being stared?

Why don’t you take your eyes off her?

Or are you simply enjoying the beauty of the world in her face..?

I know that it is a common guy thing to appreciate a girl’s beauty. So there’s nothing to be done on that. And we girls also appreciate the beauty in you, guys.

Looking is not that bad, but when it becomes ogling/staring for a long time, the situation changes.  It is inappropriate and should be stopped as and when she is uncomfortable. 

And she can easily read from his body language when that looking turns out to be an ogling. 

Beware; there are two more eyes which got burnt in those awkward looks. And the fire from her eyes is well enough to pierce into his veins making it bleeding.

I wish if he could just imagine himself in her position… And above all he is disrespecting not only her but also himself with that dirty looks.

And another fact is that she might have tuned into a mute mode with that constant ogling. Then she is in fact pitying him, reading him, reading him as an undignified figure.

46 responses to “Female Behaviour- 4”

  1. Female Behaviour – 15 | Words and Notion Avatar

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  2. writeshefali Avatar

    Have you ever seen the YouTube series – Mans world?? … U reminded me a scene of ogling in that… If u haven’t then do, I think u will like it 😊

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      i didnt see.. let me check it out.. thank you shefali for suggesting..

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      1. writeshefali Avatar

        It’s a nice short series (4 parts if I remember correctly), won’t take much of your time, all about gender behaviour… something I recommend to every man who fails to understand the plights of women…

        While ogling is justified as appreciation of beauty for just mere seconds…But they fail to see when one is looked n stared at day in n out by not just one man, but tons of them…its a deliberate attempt to make us feel uncomfortable…

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          so true shefa..infact i feel pity on them.. they are not knowing how themselves are creating the worst influence..

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  4. Nisthur Anadi Avatar
    Nisthur Anadi

    looking for more than 3 seconds constantly become inappropriate , i believe , but its much less time to appreciate beautiful things lol.,,,

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      3 seconds okay.. maybe she won’t feel that much awkward..

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      1. Nisthur Anadi Avatar
        Nisthur Anadi

        Yeah agreed , I follow the same principle , except rare to rarest condition , in that 5 second should be permitted lol….

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  5. bisimodupe1975 Avatar
    bisimodupe1975

    I like the lines…And above all he is disrespecting not only her but also himself with that dirty looks. That is what ogling is, disrespectful. Great post Akhila.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks a lot my friend..I happy as you also share the same feeling of lack of respect

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  6. Kishan Thakar Avatar

    as I already said..social blogger..one who raises social issues..I have one idea how to solve this issue

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      oh.. for the first time I am hearing an idea to solve this.. tell tell..

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      1. Kishan Thakar Avatar

        i’ll write a post about that…as I said I want to be social blogger like you…thanks for giving me idea

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          I am awaiting to read that..

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          1. Kishan Thakar Avatar

            Please don’t expect much from me..just hope it doesn’t turn out to be a disaster

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              okay okay…:)

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  7. avinamdar Avatar

    Ogling is one of the national past times it would seem at the rate at which men here seem to do it. It is a sad reality for most people as they don’t learn how incredibly irritating it is. Hope they will learn in time! Cheers on another wonderful post Akhila ☺️👍

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Thanks Advaita..i liked your statement ‘ national past times’ …

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      1. avinamdar Avatar

        It’s the only way I could sum up all the ogling that goes on in our nation on a daily basis! 😛

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          yes it is true..you are from which state..?

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  8. the-human-writes Avatar

    It’s incredibly uncomfortable when we, as women, are stared at and wolf-whistled. It may seem like a compliment but it’s also disrespectful and demeaning.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      yes.. you are right, it is the most disrespectful and irritating act.. i donno why these ‘decent guys’ are not realizing the same.

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  9. fairykumar Avatar

    Great words as always!! 👌

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thank you ..

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      1. fairykumar Avatar

        Your welcome☺

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  10. shilpamohan5 Avatar

    True..first of all we feel shy,then we get irritated,anger. Then we feel pity 😑

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks shilps for capturing it.. you summarised it..irritated, angry and finally pity..

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      1. shilpamohan5 Avatar

        😊😊👍

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  11. Megha Agrawal Avatar

    Such a irritating thing…

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      absolutely.. how will you react under such situation..?

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      1. Megha Agrawal Avatar

        If I’m alone, I will ignore and move away from there. If I have a company I will raise my voice and get that person learn some lesson.

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          ha.. well accepted..

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  12. Shoaib Avatar
    Shoaib

    I’m a man but I hate men.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      hmm.. ( wonder).. why do you hate your own gender..?

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      1. Shoaib Avatar
        Shoaib

        Because of the things we do. Just like you mentioned above.

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  13. Daisy in the Willows Avatar

    Ogling is scary and creepy.

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      Yes. Daisy it is a bad experience..

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  14. myheartbeats4ublog Avatar

    Akhila..noted (respectfully, saluting) the ‘beware’ aspect! ouch!

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      thanks hari…

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  15. pins & ashes Avatar

    I’m tempted to share something, but then.. ! one of “our” pass times during an exam invigilation is appreciating (oogling seems to be so ugly a word) people, men and women 😀 😀

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    1. Akhila Avatar

      :).. so why dont you share..?

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      1. pins & ashes Avatar

        In shared one of the many instances. But oogling needs to be curbed! Bottom line!

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        1. Akhila Avatar

          yes. Ash.. it should be curbed.. the saddest part is ‘these gentle men are not realizing how easily their own self esteem is being lost’

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          1. pins & ashes Avatar

            Another thing is … Oogling becomes ooing when it starts to irritate the other, now that is encroaching on somebody else’s private space of movement, body… Sometimes none of us can help but look at somebody and just stare, you know what I mean! But then when does that then become this irritating act called oogle is something to be understood.. Oogle is a new word, Kerala is famous for staring, men and women.. Ah!

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            1. Akhila Avatar

              yes Aswathy.. emotions are least respected ..

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