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Female Behaviour – 2

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She was very worried and angry at him yesterday. But she was afraid to question him. She doubted if his ego got hurt on her questioning, it might force him to be away from her.

She wished if he asked about her worries. But nothing happened and his nature forced her to take a back foot.

But she just forgets everything when he touches her. Then she just prefers to be hugged. Even if she may be angry or worried, she just can’t tolerate himself being away from her.

She is not pretending to be happy when he hugs her. But naturally her worries got buried. And hence during those moments, she is afraid to question him on his actions which made her worried.

So her heart plays a game to keep herself alive. On one side it cries for his care & love and on the other side it just excuses/justifies him whenever it’s hurt.

But can her heart play this game always…?

Nooo..

She trusts him blindly and he is the center of her belief. Her heart won’t be alive at all to forgive him, if he has betrayed her love and trust.

So definitely her heart won’t play that game if her belief is lost. She will never give a second chance in such a case. Her trust is almost impossible to earn back. Once lost, it is really lost forever. And she will never regret on losing such a person who didn’t a respect the bonds of love and trust.

And of course trust is not gender specific. I was just trying to portrait the tenderness as well as stubbornness of her behaviour.

Do you mind to check Female Behaviour-1

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Author: Akhila

An emotionally colored and emotionally neutral woman flying across the space between words and whipping up whimsical waves of notion to discern the quantum code of her soul.

75 thoughts on “Female Behaviour – 2

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  3. ‘On one side it cries for his care & love and on the other side it just excuses/justifies him whenever it’s hurt’. Perfectly penned. loved it

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  4. The problem with trust is that one is too scared to see the truth and keeps postponing facing the truth. So, she is living moment to moment but her long term future is in a dilemma. She knows that very well and yet, allows her heart to be convinced that all is okay.
    The dichotomy of love.
    She is in for a huge heart break. I just hope she is strong enough.

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  6. Yeah trust is not gender specific……and you definitely portrayed our behavior.

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  7. Ah the feeling of being torn by his absence and his touch … well portrayed. I think trust levels vary from person to person. In a case such as this trusting the same person, I don’t think it would be as strong as the first time.

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  8. When string of trust is broken there will always be a knot to join it again.

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  9. ” She will never give a second chance in such a case. Her trust is almost impossible to earn back. Once lost, it is really lost forever. And she will never regret on losing such a person who didn’t a respect the bonds of love and trust.”—- very well said Akhila. Its hard yet sometimes we have to put full stops, when the time gets exceeded. We never regret on on such decisions 🙂

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  10. well penned this Akhila.

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  11. I wrote the essence of this post on my post…what coincidence…

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  12. No I didn’t mean that … Every boy falsely or just for the sake of it praises girls .. this is so mainstream .. This comment was for female behaviour-1 😛 mea culpa

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  13. Reality check .. Every guy has done this .. nicely put into words

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  14. I love your words…the real feelings of a girl

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  15. Wonderful post..”A broken heart can be mended, but not in whole again as before.” this words in your comment section made me speechless ..:)

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  16. Second chances means never fully being able to trust again. My thoughts are is it worth it?

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  17. I think trust is something which both the gender expects from their partner and both would be definitely disappointed if this trust is broken.. But then jumping to the conclusion without interacting should be avoided … I’m sure everyone has reasons for their actions so knowing it would make life more easier..isn’t it?? Just my opinion 🙂

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    • yeah.. I respect your views..jumping into the conclusion should be avoided…and as you said it is a clear case applicable to both sides..

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      • True. And about 2nd chance.. I don’t know what to comment. They know their partners well.. If they feel he/she is genuinely sorry and has good acceptance level may be they can give a chance. Else up to their choice. In fact life has given us many 2nd chances in many aspects. Point is are we learning from it and making our lives better or are we ruining it. ?? Same applies in relationship as well …

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      • True. And about 2nd chance.. I don’t know what to comment. They know their partners well.. If they feel he/she is genuinely sorry and has good acceptance level may be they can give a chance. Else up to their choice. In fact life has given us many 2nd chances in many aspects. Point is are we learning from it and making our lives better or are we ruining it. ?? Same applies in relationship as well .

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  18. Trust as is commonly noted is like a sheet of paper, crumbled.. The paper can be ironed back but the creases remain.. Need not limit it to just women or a spousal/love relationship. I would say in any ..

    Trust I feel is a very intimate feeling or the most intimate of all feelings with anyone.. Once gone, we’ll be cautious esp with the same person!

    Good train of thoughts there A

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  19. breach of trust in love..no second chances! but…. nice article again, A!!

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  20. You must be exceptional and too strong to not give a second chance.

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  21. Great analysis Akhila…

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  22. Once lost, it’s always lost forever. I really loved this one, Akhila. 🙂

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