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Female Behaviour-1


female 1he  : your dress looks pretty nice

she: aw, thanks.

he  : you always have a got a good color sense

she: thanks yaar

he  : ……….the chat continues.

Do you really think that the girl enjoys his talking?

She is in fact pity for him as he does not understand how easily he lost his self-esteem.

And definitely exceptions may be there. i.e. there may be girls who like flattering and flirting…

But a self-respecting girl would definitely feel it to be boring and so not genuine. She could never enjoy such blah blah words and definitely she would escape from the situation.

Author: Akhila

Akhila is the founder and sole contributor of wordsandnotion.com and qualitynotion.com. A self motivated life long learner who loves to decode signs from the universe. Her weirdness is totally aligned with her real life stories and thought experiments. She is the author of “Know them, One answer to many questions” (a General Knowledge book) and “I Had a Crush - The 17 Kinks” (A free ebook of 17 short stories)

89 thoughts on “Female Behaviour-1

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  2. I agree.It’s just irritating,can’t wait to escape.They think they are funny and giving some real compliments.but we know it’s just not that.

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  3. It’s true

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  6. Oh! Society somehow has put aside a bag of things for women/wives/girlfriends/girlgangs.. And there are people to believe and pass on such! High time they stop being generalized and be cater to the individual woman ..

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  7. Reality in simple words..:)

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  8. Akhila nice profile pic haan ;P

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  9. Agree totally.. It’s hard to stand these conversations..

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  10. hmmm, nice thought! “genuineness” is a perception! again thought provoking. we guys better wake up to reality!!

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  11. I feel a man making a couple of small compliments doesn’t necessarily mean he’s being disingenuous. Maybe he is nervous to make conversation with this particular woman and this is a way to Segway a conversation with her and it’s harmless. Rather a compliment than negative statements? In this day, most people seem to say rude and unkind things needlessly, so what’s wrong with a few kind words here and there? In my humble opinion I feel you may be overly picky and have high expectations about what’s going on, when it really be something very innocent. But that’s just my two cents. 🙂

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    • thanks a lot for your two cents..
      but we need to extrapolate the scenario and that is very well clear for every girls in my age..And you know, there is no end to the irritation we feel on such meaningless words. And in this world, it is very rare to hear such words in a a real compliment sense and normally every girl can understand at the very start of conversation itself, that where it is leading..


  12. Thats true Akhila….sugar coated words & acts seem fake and irritating beyond a certain point

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  13. Could the compliments be genuine or is there always an ulterior motive?

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  14. True..true. .true… 😀

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  15. I really enjoyed all the comments from this post. It really reminders past of all the guys. Because at starting point in teenage world. They don’t know “How to keep it cool”. So Girl’ll smell his desperation and keep distant from him. It hurts from this is truth. I see, many guys at the age of 20 repeating same mistake. Commenting on gitls pics on Insta, facebook. It looks so weird. In fact, I’m planning to make fun of all guys through play at my college. But I’m afraid, my college will allow it or not. It’s a religious college.

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  16. I have a different take on this! Let’s see (from my perspective)…

    he: your dress looks pretty nice || He means “you are” looking nice

    she: aw, thanks || She’s slightly flattered (perhaps)

    he : you always have a good color sense || He is actually appreciating her

    she: thanks yaar || More flattered (could be)

    Objectively speaking: A man looks on the woman; her dress doesn’t really matter to him.

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    • this is alternate dimension..good..Really appreciates your comment
      but you might have understood what I am really intending. and this scenario needs to be extrapolated to many other cases where we girls, literally feel irritated with such flirting words..

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  17. So very true Akhila, sometimes its just that how can I bluntly say that on this page where there would be thousands of views and this keeps me away from blurting out what I feel is right..

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  18. As usual in alternative world. May be the guy was there becoz he wore a new dress and he felt that she would recognise it but she didn’t. So he started a convo related to dress. Ofcourse he can’t say he wore a awesome dress. So he starts with the sentence. “Hey. Your dress looks really nice” Little did he know that he is marked as a dork for eternity :’)

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  19. I think if a guy is being genuine and likes my dress style then by all means say what is on your mind. 🙂

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  20. Good colour choice ?? I mean seriously?? Blue and orange ?? Haha. Too loud attire. Screaming for attention types;)

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  21. 🙂
    i find similar talks in Fb chats too…. Too much flattery whether its about pics, dress sense, even the cut to cut replies what we give….. Many comments will be u r so beautiful/ smart or very different blah blah blah…..
    few days back when i accepted an acquaintance the first thing he did was started pressing like buttons for my pics. I felt as if he was just waiting for my acceptance so that he can scroll on the pics. I felt so pity on him. Doesn’t have any sense of keeping up any trace of first impression at all…

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  22. These days I’m observing that posts are little incomplete.. May be u could add more details .. Just my opinion..

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  23. yeah… she wants to tell them in face..please shut the crap.. let’s talk sense

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  24. Well sense of appreciation is also okay . but too much of flattering seems irritating for me..

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  25. Absolutely right! Your views are exactly what I too think of these kind of convos 🙂

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  26. In banking terminology it’s called filling of KYC norms . These days it takes half an hour to comply to filling this form . And on Face Book , Twitter , friends request & following at the drop of a hat . I have hundred of requests on Face Book for being friend . Read : Face Book Friends in my Book : Journey from Guwahati to Machhiwara .

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  27. This is really a truth of the day! I mean yes! I even don’t like these kind of sticky chats u know. Boys should stop this if they want to be friends in my opinion. I mean asking every single detail about a girl is like i am filling a form of ration cards 😀 😀

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